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Stop Walking on Eggshells

Taking Your Life Back When Someone You Care About Has Borderline Personality Disorder
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Stop Walking on Eggshells offers a compassionate and practical guide for those affected by loved ones with borderline personality disorder (BPD) or narcissistic personality disorder (NPD). This fully revised third edition incorporates the latest research and equips readers with strategies to understand emotional instability, set boundaries, and repair relationships marked by manipulation and volatile behaviour. Learn to navigate conflict, assert your needs, and protect yourself while fostering healthier connections.
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This book is ideal for anyone living with or supporting a person who has borderline or narcissistic personality disorder. It is particularly suited to family members, friends, caregivers, and mental health professionals seeking practical tools and emotional understanding.

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This fully revised and updated third edition includes the very latest BPD research, extensive new information on narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), comorbidity and the effectiveness of schema therapy, and includes coping and communication skills readers can use to stabilize their relationship with BPD or NPD sufferers in their life.

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Isn’t it time you stopped walking on eggshells? Learn how with this fully revised and updated third edition of a self-help classic—now with more than one million copies sold!

Do you feel manipulated, controlled, or lied to? Are you the focus of intense, violent, and irrational rages? Do you feel you are ‘walking on eggshells’ to avoid the next confrontation? If the answer is ‘yes,’ someone you care about may have borderline personality disorder (BPD)—a mood disorder that causes negative self-image, emotional instability, and difficulty with interpersonal relationships.

Stop Walking on Eggshells has already helped more than a million people with friends and family members suffering from BPD understand this difficult disorder, set boundaries, and help their loved ones stop relying on dangerous BPD behaviours. This fully revised third edition has been updated with the very latest BPD research on comorbidity, extensive new information about narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), the effectiveness of schema therapy, and coping and communication skills you can use to stabilize your relationship with the BPD or NPD sufferer in your life.

This compassionate guide will enable you to:

  • Make sense out of the chaos
  • Stand up for yourself and assert your needs
  • Defuse arguments and conflicts
  • Protect yourself and others from violent behaviour

If you’re ready to bring peace and stability back into your life, this time-tested guide will show you how, one confident step at a time.

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Stop Walking on Eggshells is widely praised as an essential resource for families dealing with BPD. Experts highlight its compassionate and realistic portrayal of the disorder, comprehensive coping techniques, and clarity on complex behaviours. The book is recognised for restoring balance in difficult relationships and providing valuable insights for managing emotional challenges.

--Margalis Fjelstad, LMFT, author and therapist
--Nina W. Brown, EdD, professor and scholar

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INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781684036899

Publisher: New Harbinger Publications

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 01 January 2021

Country: United States

Imprint: New Harbinger Publications

Audience: General / adult, Tertiary education, Professional and scholarly

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 18.0mm

Width: 152.0mm

Height: 226.0mm

Weight: 380g

Pages: 280

About the Author

Paul T. Mason, MS, is a seasoned health care executive currently serving as vice president of Ascension Medical Group in Wisconsin. His research on borderline personality disorder (BPD) has been published in the Journal of Clinical Psychology, and his written work has appeared in national and international print media.

Randi Kreger is author of The Stop Walking on Eggshells Workbook and The Essential Family Guide to Borderline Personality Disorder. Her website, www.StopWalkingOnEggshells.com, offers material related to BPD. She also provides a free online family support group, Moving Forward, at groups.io/g/MovingForward. She gives workshops throughout the US and Japan.

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