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Confessions of an S & M Virgin

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Confessions of an S & M Virgin by Linda Jaivin explores the journey of a woman who delves into the world of sadomasochism, challenging societal norms and personal boundaries along the way. It’s a candid, insightful look at self-discovery, highlighting themes of freedom and understanding within relationships. The narrative is both provocative and humorous, blending personal adventure with broader cultural reflections.
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You might enjoy this book if you're curious about exploring alternative relationships and sexual wellness from a humorous and introspective perspective. The author's candid narrative offers an engaging exploration into personal desires and self-discovery.

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From the author of Eat Me, Linda Jaivin vistis an S & M club in Sydney, explains why she prefers younger men and delineates the exact nature of lust. Tells about her friend the axe-murderer and her short life as a boy.

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Linda Jaivin gets a spanking as she interviews the manager of an S&M club. She steps into a kickboxing ring, and wears a penis for a week to find out how it feels to be a man. 'When I'm writing non-fiction,' she says, 'I tend to get into character.'

In this hilarious and outrageous book, Jaivin describes the effects of PMT and tells the terrifying story of her friend the axe murderer. She reveals why she loves younger men and why sex makes her laugh. She takes us backstage at a Beijing rock concert, explores the secretive world of Chinese gays and lesbians, and gives an astonishing account of what happened the night the tanks rolled into Tiananmen Square.

In Confessions of an S & M Virgin, Jaivin will tie you to your chair and make you laugh and cry and laugh again.

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INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781875847464

Publisher: Text Publishing

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 01 October 1997

Country: Australia

Imprint: The Text Publishing Company

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Width: 152.0mm

Height: 230.0mm

Weight: 250g

Pages: 224

About the Author

Linda Jaivin's books include novels, a novella (Dead Sexy), a collection of essays Confessions of an S&M Virgin, and the China memoir The Monkey and the Dragon. Her 2006 novel The Infernal Optimist was short-listed for the Australian Literature Society Gold Medal. In addition, she has published many short stories and essays and has had several plays produced for the stage. She's also a literary and film translator from Chinese, a cultural commentator and public speaker. She likes reading, travel, food and other things. She lives in Sydney. Eat Me was her first novel.

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