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How to Deal with Difficult People

Fast, Effective Strategies for Handling Problem People
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Learn how to navigate the bullies, manipulators, and complainers who drive you mad. With example dialogue and techniques, it will help you navigate tricky situations and keep your cool. By understanding the motives and individual behaviours of difficult people, you can learn to manage aggression, reduce... Read More
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Gain essential skills for career development with this pocket guide to handling the hardest kinds of people, including tricky customers, challenging co-workers and bad bosses.

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Learn how to navigate the bullies, manipulators, and complainers who drive you mad. With example dialogue and techniques, it will help you navigate tricky situations and keep your cool.

By understanding the motives and individual behaviours of difficult people, you can learn to manage aggression, reduce awkwardness, and remain the better person. This 6th edition of the bestselling Dealing with Difficult People features practical exercises, useful templates, and top tips you need to get the best out of the worst, including how to deal with difficult customers, dealing with difficult people in the digital sphere, advice on beating bullies at their own game, and how to deal with a boss who drives you barmy.

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Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781398621602

Publisher: Kogan Page Ltd

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 03 May 2025

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Kogan Page Ltd

Edition: 6th Revised edition

Audience: General / adult, Tertiary education, Professional and scholarly

DIMENSIONS

Width: 138.0mm

Height: 216.0mm

Weight: 250g

Pages: 184

About the Author

Roy Lilley is an established writer, broadcaster and commentator on health and social issues, speaking at conferences and seminars throughout the UK and overseas. He regularly contributes to The Today Programme, Newsnight, the Midnight Hour, BBC News 24, and BBC Radio Five Live. He writes for The Guardian, The Sunday Times, The Telegraph and other national papers and management periodicals. He is based in Surrey, UK.

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