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Stop Chasing Happiness

A pessimist's guide to a good life
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The secret to happiness? Stop trying to find it—it's not all it's cracked up to be. Finding happiness is less about learning new tricks and more about unlearning ways of thinking that hold you back: stop chasing happiness, stop obsessing over what others think, stop caring... Read More
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Finding happiness is less about learning new tricks and more about unlearning ways of thinking holding you back: Stop chasing happiness, stop obsessing over what others think, stop caring too much about how you feel, stop making sacrifices for personal success.

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The secret to happiness? Stop trying to find it—it's not all it's cracked up to be.

Finding happiness is less about learning new tricks and more about unlearning ways of thinking that hold you back: stop chasing happiness, stop obsessing over what others think, stop caring too much about how you feel, stop making sacrifices for personal success.

Here, academic and philosopher Frank Martela unpacks why we value happiness, and why chasing it is actually making you miserable. He reveals the secrets to Finland's continued top rankings in the global happiness reports by showing that, actually, living with purpose and contentment is much more beneficial than striving to be happy.

Building on Frank's personal encounters with people from all walks of life during travels around Finland and abroad, Stop Chasing Happiness blends personal stories and quirky anecdotes with the latest scientific research and ancient traditions to deliver a strong message about how you should approach life: what you should stop doing and what you should start doing instead, to find an enduring sense of contentment and an energising sense of purpose for your own life.

Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781805463733

Publisher: Atlantic Books

Format: Hardback

Date Published: 20 March 2025

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Atlantic Books

Edition: Main

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Width: 129.0mm

Height: 198.0mm

Weight: 250g

Pages: 224

About the Author

Frank Martela, PhD, is a philosopher, professor and researcher of psychology at Aalto University in Finland, specializing in happiness, meaningfulness, human motivation, and how organizations and institutions can unleash human potential. He has lectured at universities around the world, and his last book A Wonderful Life - Insights on Finding a Meaningful Experience (HarperCollins, 2020) was translated into 29 languages. Frank is a key authority on why Finland is so happy, having written extensively on Nordic well-being, alongside being the Principal Investigator for a research team developing a well-being module for European Social Survey 2025.Outside of work, Frank is the father of three lovely kids, plays football and a Nordic sport called floorball, and enjoys long summers at a small cabin in the Finnish archipelago.

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