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You Are Not a Before Picture

How to Finally Make Peace with Your Body, for Good
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In You Are Not a Before Picture, Alex Light combines personal anecdotes with insightful advice to challenge society's conventional beauty standards. The book encourages readers to appreciate their bodies and embrace self-acceptance by focusing on mental well-being rather than cosmetic changes. With a compassionate voice, Light aims to inspire a more positive body image and a healthier relationship with oneself.
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You might enjoy this book if you're looking to embrace body positivity and challenge societal beauty standards. The author offers insights grounded in self-acceptance and personal empowerment, encouraging readers to embrace themselves as they are and reject the notion that happiness is contingent on reaching an idealised version of oneself. If you're interested in personal growth and well-being, this read could be both enlightening and inspiring.

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An urgent, enlightening and empowering guide to disavowing diet culture and learning to make peace with our bodies, from body confidence and anti-diet advocate, Alex Light.

The best-selling inspirational guide to help you tackle diet culture, find self-acceptance and make peace with your body

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An urgent, enlightening and empowering guide to disavowing diet culture and learning to make peace with our bodies, from body confidence and anti-diet advocate, Alex Light.

When we look in the mirror, so many of us see a ‘before’ picture: the miserable person in the side-by-side shot waiting for the ‘glow-up’ (read: weight loss) that will bring true happiness. But it’s not our fault that we see our bodies as projects in need of constant work: this is just one of the beliefs that has been ingrained in us by diet culture. We have been taught to view ourselves as a collection of ‘problem’ areas for which the billion-dollar diet industry holds the solutions.

Step-by-step, You Are Not a Before Picture provides a framework for changing the way we view ourselves and the world around us. Working with experts in the fields of psychotherapy, fitness and nutrition, Alex empowers readers to interrogate their underlying beliefs, challenge the external and internal forces that are holding us back, and finally find freedom in our bodies, for good.

Alex Light was a number 4 Sunday Times Non Fiction bestseller in the w/e June 19th 2022.

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Alex Light's book offers a compelling critique of diet culture, aiming to dismantle harmful dieting practices and promote self-acceptance. It presents a passionate appeal for readers to embrace themselves beyond societal pressures, prompting a shift away from focusing on physical appearance.

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ISBN: 9780008507596

Publisher: HarperCollins Publishers

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 06 July 2023

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: HQ

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 26.0mm

Width: 129.0mm

Height: 198.0mm

Weight: 260g

Pages: 228

About the Author

Alex Light began writing as a teenager in the online communities of Episode Interactive and Wattpad. She has written dozens of love stories, accumulating over 100-million reads online. With a BA in English Literature, she has the perfect excuse to read too many books when she isn't busy writing her own. She lives in Toronto, Canada, with her dog, two cats, and a never-ending love for winter. The Upside of Falling is her first published novel.

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