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The Power of A Positive No

The life-changing book from the internationally bestselling author of Getting to Yes
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The Power of a Positive No by William Ury offers strategies for saying "no" in a way that is both assertive and respectful, aiming to preserve relationships and maintain personal integrity. The book provides tools to articulate your needs while preventing unnecessary conflict, balancing both firmness and empathy. Ury's approach helps readers navigate difficult situations by enabling them to assert boundaries without alienating others.
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You might enjoy this book if you're looking to enhance your communication skills, especially in expressing your needs assertively while maintaining positive relationships. It's ideal for those who often struggle with saying "no" without feeling guilty and want to learn how to set boundaries confidently and constructively. Perfect for both personal growth and professional development, it offers practical strategies for preserving key relationships while asserting your own needs.

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From the author of the phenomenal international bestseller Getting to Yes, this book demonstrates how to say No and still get to Yes.

From the author of the phenomenal international bestseller Getting to Yes, this book demonstrates how to say No and still get to Yes.

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The most powerful word in the language is one that most people find difficult to say. Yet when we know how to use it correctly, it has the power to profoundly transform our lives. That word is 'No'.

In Getting to Yes, William Ury helped millions of people across the world discover how to transform their working and personal relationships by saying Yes. In this wise and insightful 'prequel' to the international bestseller, Ury asserts that, although you may be able to say Yes, you cannot get to the right Yes until you know how to say No.

Most of us are reluctant to say No when we fear the word could spoil relationships with bosses, lose the deal with clients, or upset family members. This indispensable book will help readers know whether and how to say No and provides a simple, proven five-step solution and tried and tested techniques to tackle this everyday dilemma.

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The Power of A Positive No by William Ury is praised for drawing on deep experience and presenting a thoughtful approach. The book offers a clear five-step guide to help readers assertively express their wishes and set boundaries effectively.

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Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9780340923801

Publisher: Hodder & Stoughton

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 03 April 2008

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Hodder Paperback

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 18.0mm

Width: 131.0mm

Height: 199.0mm

Weight: 193g

Pages: 272

About the Author

William Ury co-wrote the Getting to Yes", which has sold over 5 million copies around the world. The Power of a Positive No", based on the popular Harvard course for managers and professionals, is Ury's eighth book and he has written widely on negotiation, conflict resolution and war prevention. In recent years, Ury has mediated personally between top Russian leaders and the president of Chechnya, gone head to head with Venezuelan President Hugo Chavez and his political opposition, and discussed with the Dalai Lama how to negotiate the conflict over Tibet. Ury received a BA from Yale and an MA and Ph.D. in Social Anthropology from Harvard. He and his wife and three children currently live in Boulder, Colorado.

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