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The Call of Character

Living a Life Worth Living
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The Call of Character by Mari Ruti challenges the cultural obsession with cheerfulness and positive thinking, advocating for a resurrection of character that embraces our eccentric and anxiety-ridden aspects. Ruti critiques the pursuit of normalisation and existential equilibrium, arguing that a passionate and fortitudinous life, even if lopsided, is more authentic and rewarding. She stresses the importance of meeting adversity courageously without breaking, and warns against losing our capacity to handle complexity, melancholy, and disappointment, which are essential to experiencing a full range of human emotions.
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This book is ideal for readers interested in philosophy, psychology, psychoanalysis, and those seeking a deeper understanding of human character beyond conventional positive thinking. It appeals to academics, therapists, and anyone willing to explore the complexities of a passionate, imperfect life.

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Should we feel inadequate when we fail to be healthy, balanced, and well-adjusted? Is it realistic or even desirable to strive for such an existential equilibrium? Condemning our current cultural obsession with cheerfulness and "positive thinking," Mari Ruti calls for a resurrection of character that honours our more eccentric frequencies and argues that sometimes a tormented and anxiety-ridden life can also be rewarding.

Ruti critiques the search for personal meaning and pragmatic attempts to normalise human beings' unruly and idiosyncratic natures. Exposing the tragic banality of a happy life commonly lived, she instead emphasises the advantages of a lopsided life rich in passion and fortitude. She also shows what matters is not our ability to evade existential uncertainty but our courage to meet adversity in such a way that we do not become irrevocably broken.

We are in danger of losing the capacity to cope with complexity, ambiguity, melancholia, disorientation, and disappointment, Ruti warns, leaving us feeling less "real" and less connected and unable to process a full range of emotions. Heeding the call of our character means acknowledging the marginalised, chaotic aspects of our being, and it is precisely these creative qualities that make us inimitable and irreplaceable.

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Praised for her clear and insightful prose, Mari Ruti is commended for translating complex philosophical and psychoanalytic ideas into accessible language. Amy Allen of Dartmouth College highlights the book's original and profound treatment of what constitutes a good life. Gail Newman of Williams College notes its powerful contribution to discussions of the self within psychoanalytic discourse. The book is recognised for giving voice to often disavowed human tensions and is recommended both for academic audiences and therapeutic practice.

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ISBN: 9780231164085

Publisher: Columbia University Press

Format: Hardback

Date Published: 03 December 2013

Country: United States

Imprint: Columbia University Press

Audience: Professional and scholarly

DIMENSIONS

Width: 140.0mm

Height: 210.0mm

Weight: 250g

Pages: 224

About the Author

Mari Ruti is professor of critical theory at the University of Toronto and visiting professor and director of graduate studies in the Program for Studies of Women, Gender, and Sexuality at Harvard University. Her Columbia University Press books are Between Levinas and Lacan: Self, Other, Ethics (2015) and The Call of Character: Living a Life Worth Living (2013).

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