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Penis Envy and Other Bad Feelings

The Emotional Costs of Everyday Life
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Penis Envy and Other Bad Feelings by Mari Ruti explores the pervasive negative emotions of contemporary life through a blend of personal narrative, feminist theory, and cultural critique. Using Freud's concept of penis envy as a starting point, Ruti examines the pressures of neoliberal pragmatism—such as unyielding productivity, relentless self-improvement, and forced cheerfulness—in Western society. She challenges the myth of eventual reward and progress, revealing the emotional toll beneath societal expectations. The book offers a sharp feminist critique of modern gender relations, drawing on theorists like Foucault, Lacan, and Berlant to analyse intimacy, gender stereotypes, and cultural norms, exposing how neoliberal heteropatriarchy subtly perpetuates inequalities and emotional distress.
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This book is ideal for readers interested in feminist theory, contemporary psychology, cultural studies, and those engaged with the emotional impact of modern societal pressures. It suits an audience seeking critical reflection on gender, intimacy, and neoliberal culture, including students, academics, and thoughtful general readers.

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Mari Ruti combines theoretical reflection, cultural critique, feminist politics, and personal anecdotes to analyze the prevalence of bad feelings in everyday life. Proceeding from a playful engagement with Freud’s idea of penis envy, Ruti fans out to a broader consideration of neoliberal pragmatism and a trenchant critique of gender relations.

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Mari Ruti combines theoretical reflection, cultural critique, feminist politics, and personal experience to analyse the prevalence of bad feelings in contemporary everyday life. Proceeding from a playful engagement with Freud's idea of penis envy, Ruti's autotheoretical commentary fans out to a broader consideration of neoliberal pragmatism.

She focuses on the emphasis on good performance, high productivity, constant self-improvement, and relentless cheerfulness that characterises present-day Western society. Revealing the treacherousness of our fantasies of the good life, particularly the idea that our efforts will eventually be rewarded—that things will eventually get better—Ruti demystifies the false hope that often causes us to tolerate an unbearable present.

Theoretically rigorous and lucidly written, Penis Envy and Other Bad Feelings is a trenchant critique of contemporary gender relations. Refuting the idea that we live in a postfeminist world where gender inequalities have been transcended, Ruti describes how neoliberal heteropatriarchy has transformed itself in subtle and stealthy, and therefore all the more insidious, ways.

Mobilising Michel Foucault's concept of biopolitics, Jacques Lacan's account of desire, and Lauren Berlant's notion of cruel optimism, she analyses the rationalisation of intimacy, the persistence of gender stereotypes, and the pornification of heterosexual culture. Ruti shines a spotlight on the depression, anxiety, frustration, and disenchantment that frequently lie beneath our society's sugarcoated mythologies of self-fulfilment, romantic satisfaction, and professional success, speaking to all who are concerned about the emotional costs of the pressure-cooker ethos of our age.

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Acclaimed by critics, Penis Envy and Other Bad Feelings is praised for its lucid, lively intelligence and rigorous yet accessible analysis. Sheila Heti notes the book evokes feelings of liberty, outrage, and possibility, akin to attending Mari Ruti's lectures. Kate Bolick highlights Ruti’s talent for naming cultural ailments and providing insight into the unspoken challenges of everyday life. The book is also noted for its unique blend of queer and feminist theory with autobiographical elements, addressing crucial contemporary issues with wisdom and generosity.

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ISBN: 9780231186698

Publisher: Columbia University Press

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 02 August 2021

Country: United States

Imprint: Columbia University Press

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Width: 140.0mm

Height: 216.0mm

Weight: 0g

Pages: 312

About the Author

Mari Ruti is Distinguished Professor of Critical Theory and of Gender and Sexuality Studies at the University of Toronto. She is the author of many books, including The Summons of Love (2011); The Call of Character: Living a Life Worth Living (2013); and The Ethics of Opting Out: Queer Theory’s Defiant Subjects (2017), all published by Columbia University Press.

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