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Relate to Others with Confidence

A Guidebook for LGBTQIA+ People and Those with a Different Label or No Label
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This guidebook is designed to increase readers’ social resilience and assertiveness in response to minority stress. It highlights the need for belonging and community building, promoting a safe, collaborative, and peaceful coexistence within our diverse, pluralistic cultures. The LGBTQIA+ Peacemaking Book Project offers two guidebooks, Feel... Read More
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An inclusive and informative guide to responding to minority stress with social resilience, assertiveness, and competence, built from collaboration across the political spectrum on best practices to have respectful and affirmative engagement with and about intersectional LGBTQIA+-identified individuals.

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This guidebook is designed to increase readers’ social resilience and assertiveness in response to minority stress. It highlights the need for belonging and community building, promoting a safe, collaborative, and peaceful coexistence within our diverse, pluralistic cultures.

The LGBTQIA+ Peacemaking Book Project offers two guidebooks, Feel Secure in Yourself and Relate to Others with Confidence, along with twelve e-resources self-published by each set of chapter coauthors. The chapter coauthors are scholars, clinicians, and/or community leaders with differing and sometimes politically opposing viewpoints. They collaborated to find common ground, reduce prejudice, and improve LGBTQIA+ health and self-development for a wide range of readers.

These self-help resources are written for the general public and can be utilised by academics, clinicians, researchers, religious leaders, parents, and other providers who wish to learn updated and integrated ideas and skills concerning sexuality, gender, race and ethnicity, faith and purpose of life, emotional health, resilience, and relationships. This book project is a social experiment in bridge-building and hope, aiming to empower readers with identity and skill development, while reducing the side-taking that impairs growth.

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Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781538190449

Publisher: Bloomsbury Publishing Plc

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 20 July 2024

Country: United States

Imprint: Rowman & Littlefield Publishers

Illustration: 2 BW Illustrations

Audience: Professional and scholarly

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 19.0mm

Width: 151.0mm

Height: 227.0mm

Weight: 281g

Pages: 174

About the Author

About the Editors
A. Lee Beckstead (he/him), PhD, is white-Peruvian, gay, cisgender, currently nondisabled, and spiritual; was excommunicated from The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints; and has been in a primary relationship with a man since 1997. He has been a psychologist in private practice since 2003 in Salt Lake City, Utah. He provides weekend retreats for male survivors of sexual abuse (MenHealing.org) and he is part of a diverse research team studying the health and satisfaction of individuals who are single and celibate or noncelibate or in a same-gender/queer or mixed-orientation relationship.
Jacks Cheng, PhD, EdM, (ta, he, they) is a queer migrant of Taiwanese heritage to Canada and the U.S. Ta works as supervising psychologist at NYC Health + Hospitals/Jacobi and assistant professor of Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences at Albert Einstein College of Medicine. Ta is also the 2023 Chair of the Committee on Early Career Psychologists of the American Psychological Association.
Sulaimon Giwa, PhD, (he/him/his) is an associate professor and interim dean of social work at Memorial University of Newfoundland and Labrador in Canada. Sulaimon is a scholar-activist who self-identifies as Black, Muslim, and gay. He authored the 2022 book, Racism and Gay Men of Color: Living and Coping with Discrimination.
Mark A. Yarhouse, PsyD, is a clinical psychologist who specializes in conflicts tied to religious identity and sexual and gender identity. He is the Dr. Arthur P. and Mrs. Jean May Rech Chair in Psychology at Wheaton College, where he runs the Sexual and Gender Identity (SGI) Institute. He is an award-winning teacher and researcher and is the past recipient of the Gary Collins Award for Excellence in Christian Counseling. He is currently the Chair of the task force on LGBT issues for Division 36 (Psychology of Religion and Spirituality) of the American Psychological Association. He has published over 80 peer-reviewed journal articles and book chapters and is author or co-author of several books, including Understanding Sexual Identity: A Resource for Youth Ministers and Understanding Gender Dysphoria: Navigating Transgender Issues in a Changing Culture. His most recent books are Sexual Identity & Faith and Costly Obedience: Listening to and Learning from Celibate Gay Christians.
Iva Žegura (she/her) graduated from and specialized in clinical psychology at the Department of Psychology, Faculty of Philosophy, in Zagreb and is currently pursuing doctoral studies at Sigmund Freud University Vienna, Austria. She is a licensed clinical psychologist and is educated in gestalt integrative therapy, cybernetic psychotherapy, and sexual therapy. She works at the University Psychiatric Hospital Vrapce in Zagreb, and collaborates with several national universities and departments of psychology. She is a member of the national list of experts for transgender health care at the Croatian Ministry of Health. She is the president of the Section for Clinical Psychology and Section for Psychology and Human Rights, and vice president of the Section for Psychology of Sexuality and Psychology of Gender. She is president-elect of the board of directors of the European Professional Association for Transgender Health (EPATH). In 2022, she received the APA Division 52 International Psychology Global Citizen Psychologist Citation Award and in 2024, she received the highest professional award in Croatia “Ramiro Bujas” from the Croatian Psychological Association.
Contributors
Christine Aramburu Alegría, Frances Aranda, A. Lee Beckstead, Eric Boromisa, Don L. Braegger, João Carvalho, Jacks Cheng, Jeannie DiClementi, Stefano Eleuteri, Alison Feit, Darren J. FreemanCoppadge, Susanna M. Gallor, Alejandro Gepp-Torres, Sulaimon Giwa, Iraklis Grigoropoulos, Nathalie Huitema, Jay Jacobsen, Erin S. Lavender-Stott, Tyler Lefevor, Isabel Lima, Paul Linden, Julia Mackaronis, Mani B. Mitchell, Eduardo Morales, Brie Radis, Alex Rivera, Christopher H. Rosik, Jordan Rullo, Walter R. Schumm, Samuel Skidmore, Lauren Smithee, Kersti Spjut, Denise Steers, Jim Struve, Tim van Wanrooij, Moshe-Mordechai (Maurits) van Zuiden, Amanda Veldorale-Griffin, Jeni Wahlig, Josephine Pui-Hing Wong, Mark A. Yarhouse, Iva Žegura

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