Polywise

Polywise by Jessica Fern and David Cooley is an essential guide for anyone delving into the world of consensual non-monogamy. As polyamory increasingly enters the mainstream, more individuals are eager to explore its promises of enhanced love, connection, sex, freedom, and support. Yet, this journey can be fraught with challenges that often leave many feeling blindsided and overwhelmed. Polywise provides a comprehensive roadmap to navigating these complexities, offering both new and experienced non-monogamous individuals practical advice and deep insights.

For many, the initial transition to non-monogamy can be exhilarating, expanding personal horizons and potential for deeper relationships. However, beyond the surface excitement, many encounter underlying issues such as communication breakdowns, unintentional broken agreements, increased conflicts, and persistent jealousy. It is here that Polywise becomes an indispensable resource, delving into the root causes of these issues and transforming them into opportunities for personal growth and greater intimacy.

Drawing from their extensive experience, polyamorous psychotherapist Jessica Fern and restorative justice facilitator David Cooley share valuable lessons they have learned through thousands of hours of client work. Their grounded theory approach sheds light on the common challenges faced by those in consensual non-monogamous relationships and provides actionable strategies to tackle them. This book is designed to help readers achieve new levels of clarity and intimacy in their relationships, making it a profound tool for anyone on this journey.

"I often say there's being polyamorous and then there's being polyamorous well. I believe Polywise can equip you to do just that." -Evita Sawyers, author of A Polyamory Devotional

"An exceptional achievement that will be required reading for anyone practicing consensual non-monogamy, from seasoned veteran to timid newbie alike." -Emily Sotelo Matlack, co-host of the Multiamory podcast and co-author of Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships

"In her latest book, Jessica Fern has crafted the map to guide readers and lovers venturing into the uncharted. With great care and necessary nuance, Polywise is a must-read for anyone navigating open relationships." -Esther Perel