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Polysecure
Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy
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A practical translation of the principles of attachment theory to nonmonogamous relationships.
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In Polysecure, Jessica Fern brings a transformative perspective to the exploration of attachment theory within the context of non-monogamous relationships. As society increasingly embraces the diversity of relationship structures, Fern’s work provides critical insights into how secure, emotionally fulfilling connections can be cultivated across multiple partnerships. This groundbreaking text delves deep into the intersections between attachment theory and the dynamics of consensual non-monogamy, offering a refreshing departure from the traditional focus on monogamous bonding.
As a respected psychotherapist with a specialisation in polyamory, Fern weaves together personal and professional insights to create a comprehensive guide that addresses the complexities of maintaining healthy emotional attachments beyond the confines of monogamous expectations. The book introduces readers to Fern’s innovative nested model of attachment and trauma, which expands on existing theories to cover non-traditional relationship configurations. This model helps individuals and partners to understand and navigate the emotional landscapes of their unique relationships.
Fern identifies six practical strategies designed to foster secure attachments amongst multiple partners. These strategies are easy to understand and apply, offering concrete tools for anyone seeking to deepen the emotional security and resilience of their relationships. The advice is grounded in therapeutic methodologies, yet accessible to readers without a background in psychology. Through a blend of theory and practice, Polysecure serves as both an enlightening treatise and a pragmatic manual for those committed to navigating the intricacies of polyamorous relationships with empathy and authenticity.
Polysecure is essential reading for anyone interested in the future of love, intimacy, and connection beyond the conventional. Whether you're polyamorous, curious about non-monogamy, or simply seeking to enrich your understanding of attachment in all its forms, Fern’s work provides valuable insights into how we can all strive for healthier, more emotionally secure relationships.
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Polysecure by Jessica Fern is praised for its insightful exploration of secure attachment within the context of polyamory. Reviewers highlight its ability to provide actionable steps for establishing emotionally secure and fulfilling relationships, making it valuable for individuals and therapists alike. This book successfully bridges the gap between theory and practice, offering practical guidance to improve personal and relational dynamics, whether in polyamorous settings or more traditional monogamous environments.
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ISBN: 9781944934989
Publisher: Thorntree Press, LLC
Format: Paperback / softback
Date Published: 23 October 2020
Country: United States
Imprint: Thorntree Press, LLC
Contributors:
- Foreword by Eve Rickert
- Foreword by Nora Samaran
Audience: General / adult
DIMENSIONS
Spine width: 20.0mm
Width: 133.0mm
Height: 203.0mm
Weight: 336g
Pages: 288
About the Author
Jessica Fern is a psychotherapist, public speaker and trauma and relationship expert. In her international private practice, Jessica works with individuals, couples and people in multiple-partner relationships who no longer want to be limited by their reactive patterns, cultural conditioning, insecure attachment styles and past traumas, helping them to embody new possibilities in life and love.
Naava Smolash, who sometimes writes under the pen name Nora Samaran, is the author of Turn This World Inside Out: The Emergence of Nurturance Culture (AK Press, 2019).
Eve Rickert is the co-author of More Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory (Thorntree Press, 2014).
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