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How to Be the Love You Seek

the instant Sunday Times bestseller
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How to Be the Love You Seek by Dr Nicole LePera offers a transformative guide to self-discovery and personal growth. The book encourages readers to nurture self-love and healing while identifying and breaking free from limiting patterns. It blends psychological insights with practical exercises to empower individuals on their journey toward fulfilling relationships and genuine self-awareness.
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If you're on a journey of self-discovery and personal transformation, you might enjoy this book. It empowers readers to foster self-love and emotional growth, offering practical insights and strategies for building deeper, more meaningful relationships. Ideal for anyone seeking to enhance their emotional well-being and cultivate inner happiness.

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Improve all of your relationships, starting with your relationship with yourself

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UK bestseller, Sunday Times, December 2023

'I love Dr Nicole LePera. She helps me a lot.' GWYNETH PALTROW

'A practical and inspiring primer on how to extend true connection and love to others and to our hurting world.' DR GABOR MATE

'A loving, patient, and powerful guide to creating happy, fulfilling life relationships of all kinds. How to Be the Love You Seek is a masterwork of awareness and compassion.' JAY SHETTY

A radical new path to revolutionise your relationships

Why are our closest relationships so often a source of more stress than solace? Whether the relationship is with a romantic partner, a parent, child, friend, or colleague, the dynamic is frequently the same - you'd like the relationship to change for the better, yet nothing you try seems to work.

Author of international bestseller How to Do the Work, Dr Nicole LePera has heard these frustrating patterns of loneliness, disconnection, and resentment described time and again, both from patients in her clinical practice and from her global online community @the.holistic.psychologist. In this groundbreaking book, she offers a new path to healing our relationships by tapping into the power of the heart.

How to Be the Love You Seek harnesses the latest scientific research to teach us how to recognise our dysfunctional patterns, identify their roots in our earliest relationships, break painful cycles, build security, and share compassion with ourselves and others.

Through stories, exercises, journal prompts, and other practical tools, Dr LePera empowers us first to strengthen our foundation of self-love, paving the way for deeper, more harmonious connections with those around us.

When you become the love you seek, you have the power to transform every relationship, from your most intimate partnerships to the bonds that hold our communities together.

Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781398710788

Publisher: Orion Publishing Co

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 30 November 2023

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Orion Spring

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 26.0mm

Width: 152.0mm

Height: 232.0mm

Weight: 387g

Pages: 304

About the Author

Dr. Nicole LePera is a holistic psychologist. She received traditional training in clinical psychology at Cornell University and The New School of Social Research. Based on her hugely popular Instagram account @the.holistic.psychologist, Dr. LePera has continued to expand her reach through her membership-only learning site, sharing her tools for transformation with an ever-growing community of #selfhealers. She lives in Arizona.

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