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How To Be Second Best

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How To Be Second Best by Jessica Dettmann is a witty and heartwarming story about Emma, a mother navigating her unconventional family life. Caught in a complex relationship with her ex-husband and his new partner, Emma juggles her children's needs while seeking her own happiness. The novel explores themes of resilience and self-discovery as Emma learns to prioritise herself amid the chaos.
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You might enjoy this book if you appreciate witty, relatable stories about navigating the chaos of family life and personal ambitions. Perfect for those who find humour in life's imperfections, it explores themes of self-discovery and the juggling act of motherhood with warmth and charm.

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A hilarious and heartwarming novel about the complicated, messy, delightful struggles of modern life, for all fans of Marian Keyes, Holly Wainwright and Zoe Foster Blake.

Going from one child to two is never all that easy for a family, but when Emma's husband simultaneously fathers a third child three doors up the street, things get very tricky, very fast.

No longer is it enough for Emma to be the best wife and mother - now she's trying to be the best ex-wife, and the best part-time parent to her ex's love child, and that's before she even thinks about adding a new bloke to the mix.

Set in an upwardly mobile, ultra-competitive suburb, this is a funny, biting, heartwarming modern comedy that looks at the roles we play, how we compete, and what happens when we dare to strive for second-best.

Herald Sun describes it as 'Hilarious, heartwarming [and] all too relatable ... Ultimate summer read.'

Mia Freedman praises the novel, saying 'Sharp and crisp and funny. I was dazzled.'

Better Reading calls it 'A refreshing and honest depiction of the delirium of modern family life ... while it is undeniably laugh-out-loud funny, it is also incredibly heartwarming and real.'

The Sunday Telegraph describes it as 'Heartwarming yet biting.'

Who Weekly gives it four stars, saying 'Full of funny moments, this debut takes a wry look at parenthood, divorce and the messy reality of blended families.'

Ben Elton praises Jessica Dettmann, stating 'Jessica Dettmann is a fine comic writer. She has an eye for the small details, irritations and inspirations of life which coupled with a truly original turn of phrase and great way with a gag makes for sparkling and heartwarming reading.'

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How To Be Second Best by Jessica Dettmann is praised for its wit and relatability. Readers appreciate the humorous yet poignant portrayal of a woman's journey navigating the complexities of family dynamics and personal growth. The engaging writing style and memorable characters have left a positive impression, making it a delightful read for those who enjoy contemporary fiction with heart and humour.

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Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781460755976

Publisher: HarperCollins Publishers (Australia) Pty Ltd

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 06 January 2020

Country: Australia

Imprint: HarperCollins Publishers (Australia) Pty Ltd

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 25.0mm

Width: 128.0mm

Height: 198.0mm

Weight: 285g

Pages: 416

About the Author

Jessica Dettmann is the author of three novels, How To Be Second Best, This Has Been Absolutely Lovely and Without Further Ado, and has also written one children's book, There's No Such Book. She previously worked as a book editor and her blog, Life With Gusto, turned a sharp but affectionate eye on modern parenthood. She lives in Sydney with her family.

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