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This Has Been Absolutely Lovely

The hilarious novel about family life from the popular author of WITHOUT FURTHER ADO, for fans of Toni Jordan, Jenny Jackson and Monica Heisey
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This Has Been Absolutely Lovely by Jessica Dettmann is a heartwarming and humorous novel that delves into themes of family dynamics and personal aspirations. The story revolves around the Ross family unraveling over a week, during which long-buried secrets and dreams come to the fore. As chaos and hilarity ensue, each family member must confront their desires and inadequacies, leading to unexpected transformations and newfound understandings.
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You might enjoy this delightful read if you appreciate stories about the complexities of family life, the challenges of balancing personal aspirations with familial obligations, and the humorous, heartfelt journeys that come with major life transitions. Set in contemporary Australia, it offers a warm, witty exploration of personal growth and finding one's true path amidst the chaos of family dynamics.

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Family is forever, and there's nothing you can do about it.

The charming, hilarious, and all-too-relatable new novel from the author of How to be Second Best.

'Dettmann nails the funny, sad, and bizarre nuances of family life in this gripping novel that will appeal to fans of Liane Moriarty, Jojo Moyes, and Marian Keyes.' - Sally Hepworth

Molly's a millennial home organiser about to have her first baby. Obviously, her mum, Annie, will help with the childcare. Everyone else's parents are doing it.

But Annie's dreams of music stardom have been on hold for thirty-five years, paused by childbirth then buried under her responsibilities as a mother, wage earner, wife, and only child of ailing parents. Finally, she can taste freedom.

As Molly and her siblings gather in the close quarters of the family home over one fraught summer, shocking revelations come to light. Everyone is forced to confront the question of what it means to be a family.

This Has Been Absolutely Lovely is a story about growing up and giving in, of parents and children, of hope and failure, of bravery and defied expectation, and whether it is ever too late to try again.

'A pure joy to read from the first page to the last - lots of heart and emotion, but with a perfect amount of humour. My only complaint is that I didn't write it myself!' - Rachael Johns

'Hilarious, poignant, and a genuine page-turner. Dettmann's tone is addictively dry and often laugh-out-loud funny, but the family drama that unfolds is a proper yarn, with lovely dramatic twists and gorgeous revelations and resolutions.' - Tim Minchin

'Witty, warm, sharp, and sincere. An absolutely lovely read.' - Book'd Out

'Compelling and utterly charming ... A joyful, laugh-drenched, tear-soaked page-turner.' - Ben Elton

'Brilliantly observed, Jessica Dettmann's portrayal of messy, modern family life is packed with delicious humour and balanced with moments of real poignancy. Her knack for writing sharp, witty dialogue makes for a hugely entertaining read. I adored it.' - Joanna Nell

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This Has Been Absolutely Lovely by Jessica Dettmann has been received positively, with readers praising its heartfelt storytelling and engaging characters. The novel's exploration of family dynamics, humour, and the complexities of relationships make it a delightful read. Many reviewers appreciate the balance of emotional depth with light-hearted moments, resulting in a captivating narrative.

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INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781460755983

Publisher: HarperCollins Publishers (Australia) Pty Ltd

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 06 January 2021

Country: Australia

Imprint: HarperCollins Publishers (Australia) Pty Ltd

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 29.0mm

Width: 155.0mm

Height: 235.0mm

Weight: 465g

Pages: 384

About the Author

Jessica Dettmann is the author of three novels, How To Be Second Best, This Has Been Absolutely Lovely and Without Further Ado, and has also written one children's book, There's No Such Book. She previously worked as a book editor and her blog, Life With Gusto, turned a sharp but affectionate eye on modern parenthood. She lives in Sydney with her family.

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