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Am I Lying to Myself?

How To Overcome Denial and See the Truth
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Am I Lying to Myself? by Jane Greer, PhD explores the intricate web of self-deception and personal accountability. It delves into the ways individuals justify their actions, avoiding the hard truths about their behaviours. Through psychological insights and practical guidance, the book encourages readers to confront their inner narratives, aiming for a more authentic and integrity-filled life.
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You might enjoy this compelling read if you're interested in exploring the complexities of self-awareness and personal growth. Renowned therapist Jane Greer provides insights into recognising self-deception and guides you towards living a more authentic and fulfilling life. This book may appeal to you if you seek practical tools for personal development and want to understand the impact of honesty on your relationships and well-being.

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Denial helps us manage difficult information rather than face the truth--about ourselves, our loved ones, and the world around us. But it can also stymie progress and upend our ability to take action in our lives. Here, Dr. Jane Greer shows us how to recognize, battle, and ultimately conquer denial in our lives, so we may face the truth and move forward.

Learn to talk back to denial and start telling yourself the truth – about yourself, others, and the world around you.

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Learn to talk back to denial and start telling yourself the truth – about yourself, others, and the world around you.

Denial is everywhere, keeping us from seeing reality and causing unhappiness and frustration. It can make things disappear in the blink of an eye. It can also convince you that you are seeing what you want to see even when it isn’t there, leading you to believe in nonsense along the way.

People employ denial because it makes their life easier in the moment. It even makes it appear to be better, the way you would like it to be, the way you wish it was, rather than what it actually is. Denial reassures you, tells you not to worry; it’s not that bad, it could be worse. But the truth is, it is a short-sighted solution, a quick fix, a temporary Band-Aid.

Am I Lying to Myself? helps readers squelch the tendency to let their own and others’ denial rule their lives. This book takes readers through a series of real-world scenarios in which people find themselves mired in denial. It will help you not only recognize denial’s sneaky voice, but you will come away from each chapter with a useful skill that will help you address the denial in your own life.

After reading this book, it will become second nature to talk back to denial with clarity and strength. This book will teach you how to do that. You will never lie to yourself again.

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Jane Greer's book, Am I Lying to Myself?, is highly praised for providing insightful guidance on overcoming denial in personal and relational contexts. Reviewers commend its clear, relatable style and practical advice rooted in Greer's experience as a therapist. This self-help book is noted for its ability to help readers recognise and address denial, making it beneficial for those seeking personal growth and improved relationships.

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Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781538164235

Publisher: Bloomsbury Publishing Plc

Format: Hardback

Date Published: 04 March 2023

Country: United States

Imprint: Rowman & Littlefield Publishers

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 26.0mm

Width: 151.0mm

Height: 216.0mm

Weight: 485g

Pages: 272

About the Author

Jane Greer, PhD, is a nationally known marriage and family therapist, psychotherapist, sex expert, author, and host of the Doctor on Call radio hour at HealthyLife.net which features Shrink Wrap on Call, Pop Psych, and Let’s Talk Sex. She has appeared on many popular television shows including: The Today Show, Oprah, The Early Show, CBS News, CNN News, Anderson Cooper 360, Dateline NBC, 20/20, Good Day New York, and The View. She has contributed to magazines including Cosmopolitan, Glamour, Self, and has been interviewed for The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, USA Today, The Chicago Tribune, US Weekly, In Touch, Closer, Life & Style, Brides.com, and People. Greer was a contributing editor for Redbook magazine, where she also wrote the β€œLet’s Talk About Sex” column. She is the author of six books about navigating relationships.You can learn more about Dr. Greer at her website drjanegreer.com or follow her on Facebook and Instagram at Dr. Jane Greer. She lives and works in New York City.

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