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The Autism Partner Handbook

How to Love Someone on the Spectrum
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The Autism Partner Handbook offers essential guidance for those in relationships with autistic partners or who suspect their partner might be autistic. This practical guide covers communication skills tailored for neurologically mixed relationships, provides insights into autistic thought processes, addresses challenges in intimacy, and highlights the unique strengths these relationships can offer. It empowers couples to identify and work through common difficulties with understanding and cooperation.
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This book is ideal for partners of autistic individuals, couples navigating neurodiversity within their relationship, and readers seeking practical advice on improving communication and intimacy in mixed neurological partnerships.

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So, your partner is autistic. Or you suspect they might be. And you're wondering, 'What does this mean for my relationship?' This guide is for you.

Learn key communication skills for succeeding in a neurologically mixed relationship, gain a better understanding of your partner's mental processes, troubleshoot your sex life, and level up your appreciation for their relationship strengths. Autistic-allistic relationships, as well as relationships between two neurodiverse people, can work out splendidly, but there are a few consistent and predictable areas where they can get in trouble, which you can work through together once you know how to spot them.

The Autism Partner Handbook offers insights and practical advice for making your relationship thrive, despite the challenges that may arise from neurodiversity.

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INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781648411724

Publisher: Microcosm Publishing

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 29 June 2023

Country: United States

Imprint: Microcosm Publishing

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Width: 127.0mm

Height: 178.0mm

Weight: 250g

Pages: 160

About the Author

Joe Biel is a self-made autistic publisher and filmmaker who draws origins, inspiration, and methods from punk rock. Biel is the founder and CEO of Microcosm Publishing and co-founder of the Portland Zine Symposium. Biel has been featured in Time Magazine, Publishers Weekly, Art of Autism, Utne Reader, Oregonian, Broken Pencil, Punk Planet, Bulletproof Radio, Spectator (Japan), G33K (Korea), and Maximum Rocknroll. Biel is the author of People's Guide to Publishing: Building a Successful, Sustainable, Meaningful Book Business, Good Trouble: Building a Successful Life & Business on the Spectrum, Manspressions: Decoding Men's Behavior, Make a Zine, The CIA Makes Science Fiction Unexciting, Proud to be Retarded, Bicycle Culture Rising, and more. Biel is the director of five feature films and hundreds of short films, including Aftermass: Bicycling in a Post-Critical Mass Portland, $100 & A T-Shirt, and the Groundswell film series. The Journal of Adolescent & Adult Literacy described Biel as "not trained in pedagogy." Biel lives in Portland, Oregon. Find out more at joebiel.net

Dr. Faith G. Harper, LPC-S, ACS, ACN is a bad-ass, funny lady with a PhD. She's a licensed professional counselor, board supervisor, certified sexologist, and applied clinical nutritionist with a private practice and consulting business in San Antonio, TX. She has been an adjunct professor and a TEDx presenter, and is proud to be a woman of color and uppity intersectional feminist. She is the Wall Street Journal bestselling author of the book Unf*ck Your Brain and many other popular zines and books on subjects such as anxiety, depression, boundaries and grief. She has been known to publish in academic spaces as well, most recently with a chapter in the book Understanding Indigenous Perspectives. She is available as a public speaker and for corporate and clinical trainings.

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