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Friendaholic

Confessions of a Friendship Addict
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THE NO.1 SUNDAY TIMES BESTSELLER, NOW WITH AN EXTRA CHAPTER! ‘Essential reading’ Guardian 'A joyful read' Sunday Times 'Disarmingly honest' Daily Mirror ‘Bravely revealing’ Bernardine Evaristo 'Filled with relatable insights' Daily Mail ‘Funny, moving, helpful and true’ Sathnam Sanghera 'A generous guide to a part of... Read More
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THE NO.1 SUNDAY TIMES BESTSELLER, NOW WITH AN EXTRA CHAPTER!

‘Essential reading’ Guardian

'A joyful read' Sunday Times

'Disarmingly honest' Daily Mirror

‘Bravely revealing’ Bernardine Evaristo

'Filled with relatable insights' Daily Mail

‘Funny, moving, helpful and true’ Sathnam Sanghera

'A generous guide to a part of life every bit as crucial as romance' Observer

As a society, there is a tendency to elevate romantic love. But what about friendships? Aren't they just as – if not more – important? So why is it hard to find the right words to express what these uniquely complex bonds mean to us?

In this fascinating, insightful and uniquely moving book, Elizabeth Day embarks on a journey to find out. Friendaholic unpacks the significance and evolution of friendship from the ancient wisdom of Cicero to the modern curse of ghosting. How and why do we make friends? Is friendship an antidote to loneliness? How should we deal with a frenemy? And is it ok to end a friendship that has gone awry?

Friendaholic examines what makes a ‘good’ friend and asks us what kind of friend we want to be – to each other but also to ourselves.

Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9780008374938

Publisher: HarperCollins Publishers

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 14 March 2024

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Fourth Estate Ltd

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 34.0mm

Width: 129.0mm

Height: 198.0mm

Weight: 300g

Pages: 448

About the Author

Elizabeth Day is the author of four novels and Sunday Times bestelling memoir, How to Fail. Her acclaimed debut Scissors, Paper, Stone won a Betty Trask Award and Home Fires was an Observer book of the year. Her third, Paradise City, was named one of the best novels of 2015 in the Evening Standard, and The Party was an Amazon bestseller and a Richard & Judy bookclub pick. She is also an award-winning journalist and has written extensively for The Times, the Telegraph, the Guardian, the Observer, Harper's Bazaar and Elle. She is currently a columnist for the Mail on Sunday's You magazine and host of the iTunes chart-topping podcast, How To Fail With Elizabeth Day.

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