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How to Fail

Everything I’Ve Ever Learned from Things Going Wrong
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How to Fail by Elizabeth Day explores the concept of learning from mistakes and turning failures into powerful life lessons. Through her own experiences and those of various guests, the book encourages embracing failure as a means to achieve personal growth and self-improvement. It's a reflective and comforting read for anyone eager to find acceptance in imperfection.
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You might enjoy this book if you're interested in exploring how failure can be a powerful learning tool and a pathway to success. The author shares personal and relatable stories that highlight resilience and provide a fresh perspective on embracing setbacks. It's a great read for anyone looking to develop a healthier relationship with failure and personal growth.

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Inspired by her hugely popular podcast, How To Fail is Elizabeth Day’s brilliantly funny, painfully honest and insightful celebration of things going wrong.

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Inspired by her hugely popular podcast, How to Fail is Elizabeth Day’s brilliantly funny, painfully honest and insightful celebration of things going wrong.

This is a book for anyone who has ever failed. Which means it’s a book for everyone.

If I have learned one thing from this shockingly beautiful venture called life, it is this: failure has taught me lessons I would never otherwise have understood. I have evolved more as a result of things going wrong than when everything seemed to be going right. Out of crisis has come clarity, and sometimes even catharsis.

Part memoir, part manifesto, and including chapters on dating, work, sport, babies, families, anger and friendship, it is based on the simple premise that understanding why we fail ultimately makes us stronger. It's a book about learning from our mistakes and about not being afraid.

Uplifting, inspiring and rich in stories from Elizabeth’s own life, How to Fail reveals that failure is not what defines us; rather it is how we respond to it that shapes us as individuals.

Because learning how to fail is actually learning how to succeed better. And everyone needs a bit of that.

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How to Fail by Elizabeth Day is praised for its wisdom, humour, and insightful take on failure as a part of life. Reviews highlight the book's ability to offer profound reassurance and a new perspective on defining success. It is appreciated for its honest storytelling and as a comforting companion in a demanding world.

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ISBN: 9780008327354

Publisher: HarperCollins Publishers

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 26 December 2019

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Fourth Estate Ltd

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 22.0mm

Width: 129.0mm

Height: 198.0mm

Weight: 250g

Pages: 352

About the Author

Elizabeth Day is the author of four novels and Sunday Times bestelling memoir, How to Fail. Her acclaimed debut Scissors, Paper, Stone won a Betty Trask Award and Home Fires was an Observer book of the year. Her third, Paradise City, was named one of the best novels of 2015 in the Evening Standard, and The Party was an Amazon bestseller and a Richard & Judy bookclub pick. She is also an award-winning journalist and has written extensively for The Times, the Telegraph, the Guardian, the Observer, Harper's Bazaar and Elle. She is currently a columnist for the Mail on Sunday's You magazine and host of the iTunes chart-topping podcast, How To Fail With Elizabeth Day.

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