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13 Things Mentally Strong Parents Don't Do

Raising Self-Assured Children and Training Their Brains for a Life of Happiness, Meaning, and Success
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13 Things Mentally Strong Parents Don't Do by Amy Morin offers insightful guidance for parents aiming to foster mental strength in their children. The book outlines common mental habits to avoid and provides practical advice on instilling resilience, self-discipline, and healthy coping mechanisms in kids. By focusing on parental self-improvement, it aims to create an environment where children can thrive emotionally and mentally.
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This book may appeal to you if you're looking to develop resilient and mentally strong parenting skills by learning actionable strategies to avoid common parenting pitfalls. It offers insights into fostering independence, emotional intelligence, and perseverance in your children, making it a valuable read for those interested in enhancing their family's mental toughness.

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In today's world, many parents over-react to events by trying to shield their children from pain and reality. But children need to learn skills that will help them become mentally strong adults. Morin offers advice for providing appropriate support, guidance, and encouragement to help children deal with challenges and flourish in their everyday lives.

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The author of the international bestseller 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do turns her focus to parents, teaching them how to raise mentally strong and resilient children.

Do today’s children lack the flexibility and mental strength they need to cope with life’s challenges in an increasingly complicated and scary world? With safe spaces and trigger warnings designed to "protect" kids, many adults worry that children don’t have the resilience to reach their greatest potential. Amy Morin, the author who identified the characteristics that mentally strong people share, now gives adults—parents, teachers, and other mentors—the tools they need to become mental strength trainers.

While other books tell parents what to do, Amy teaches parents what "not to do," which she says is equally important in raising mentally strong youngsters.

As a foster parent, psychotherapist, and expert in family and teen therapy, Amy has witnessed first-hand what works. When children have the skills they need to deal with challenges in their everyday lives, they can flourish socially, emotionally, behaviourally, and academically. With appropriate support, encouragement, and guidance from adults, kids grow stronger and become better.

Drawing on her experiences and insight, 13 Things Mentally Strong Parents Don’t Do combines case studies, practical tips, specific strategies, and concrete and proven exercises to help children of all ages—from preschoolers to teenagers—build mental muscle and develop into healthy, strong adults.

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13 Things Mentally Strong Parents Don't Do by Amy Morin offers practical advice for fostering resilience and confidence in children by focusing on key behaviours to avoid. Reviews often praise the book for its actionable strategies and relatable examples, making it accessible for parents facing everyday challenges. Some critics highlight the straightforward approach as particularly useful, while others might suggest that the advice could be more nuanced.

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INFORMATION

ISBN: 9780062565754

Publisher: HarperCollins Publishers Inc

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 18 October 2018

Country: United States

Imprint: William Morrow Paperbacks

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 20.0mm

Width: 135.0mm

Height: 203.0mm

Weight: 308g

Pages: 352

About the Author

Amy Morin is a licensed clinical social worker, college psychology instructor, and psychotherapist. She is the only person in the psychology industry who is talking about mental strength on a global level. She lives in Enfield, Maine.

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