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See more"At the start of their senior year in high school, James (a girl with a boy's name) and Kat are inseparable, but by graduation, they're no longer friends. James prepares to head off to college as she reflects on the dissolution of her friendship with Kat while, in alternating chapters, Kat thinks about being newly in love and having a future that feels wide open"--
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Two best friends grow up—and grow apart—in this innovative contemporary YA novel.
Told in dual timelines—half of the chapters moving forward in time and half moving backward—We Used to Be Friends explores the most traumatic breakup of all: that of childhood besties.
At the start of their senior year in high school, James (a girl with a boy's name) and Kat are inseparable, but by graduation, they're no longer friends. James prepares to head off to college as she reflects on the dissolution of her friendship with Kat while, in alternating chapters, Kat thinks about being newly in love with her first girlfriend and having a future that feels wide open.
Over the course of senior year, Kat wants nothing more than James to continue to be her steady rock, as James worries that everything she believes about love and her future is a lie when her high-school sweetheart parents announce they're getting a divorce.
Funny, honest, and full of heart, We Used to Be Friends tells of the pains of growing up and growing apart.
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We Used to Be Friends by Amy Spalding receives praise for its authentic portrayal of friendship endings, capturing the emotional complexity with both earnestness and humour. Reviewers underscore the compelling narrative structure and character development, noting the book's ability to poignantly explore themes of friendship, loss, and self-discovery. It's described as a must-read for anyone who has experienced the heartache of losing a friend while offering hope for reconciliation and understanding.
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ISBN: 9781419738661
Publisher: Abrams
Format: Hardback
Date Published: 07 January 2020
Country: United States
Imprint: Amulet Books
Audience: Teenage
DIMENSIONS
Spine width: 35.0mm
Width: 150.0mm
Height: 216.0mm
Weight: 490g
Pages: 368
About the Author
Amy Spalding is the author of several novels for teens, including Kissing Ted Callahan (and Other Guys) and The Summer of Jordi Perez (and the Best Burger in Los Angeles), which earned a starred review from Kirkus. She lives in Los Angeles.
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