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Things to Come and Go

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Things to Come and Go presents three novellas by Bette Howland, each exploring nuanced moments in the lives of women navigating family, selfhood, and time. In 'Birds of a Feather,' a daughter reflects on her lively, complicated Abarbanel family and the bonds that shape her. 'The Old Wheeze' shifts perspectives among a young single mother and others, illuminating the challenge of escaping oneself. 'The Life You Gave Me' follows a woman confronting her father's illness, meditating on unspoken emotions and the passage of life. Originally published in 1984, these stories blend humour, beauty, and emotional depth.
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This collection will appeal to readers who appreciate literary fiction with rich character studies and reflective narratives, particularly those drawn to emotionally resonant stories about family, identity, and the passage of time.

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The three novellas collected together in Things to Come and Go showcase Bette Howland at her best. Written just before she won the MacArthur Genius Fellowship in 1984, these intimate portraits of Jewish family life are by turns equally truthful and bittersweet.

The three novellas collected together in Things to Come and Go showcase Bette Howland at her best. Written just before she won the MacArthur Genius Fellowship in 1984, these intimate portraits of Jewish family life are by turns equally truthful and bittersweet.

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'Reminiscent of Edna O'Brien, with shades too of Jean Rhys.' - The Irish Times Things to Come and Go showcases the incomparable talent of Bette Howland in three novellas of stunning power, beauty, and sustaining humour. 'Birds of a Feather' is a daughter's story of her extended, first-generation family, the 'big, brassy yak-yakking Abarbanels'. Esti, a merciless, astute observer, recalls growing up amid (the confusions and difficulties of) their history, quarrels, judgements, noisy love and inescapable bonds of blood. In 'The Old Wheeze' a single mother in her twenties returns to her sunless apartment after a date at the ballet. Shifting between four viewpoints - the young woman, the older professor who took her out, her son, and her son's babysitter - the story masterfully captures the impossibility of liberating ourselves from the self. In 'The Life You Gave Me', a woman at the midpoint of life is called to her father's sickbed. A lament for all that is forever unsaid and unsayable, the story is 'an anguished meditation on growing up, growing old and being left behind, a complaint against time.' (The New York Times) First published in 1984, Things to Come and Go, Bette Howland's final book, is a collection of haunting urgency about arrivals and departures, and the private, insoluble dramas in the lives of three women. With an introduction by Rumaan Alam, bestselling author of Leave the World Behind.

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Critics praise Howland's striking, lyrical prose and the haunting urgency permeating her storytelling. The Irish Times likens her work to that of Edna O'Brien and Jean Rhys, while the Washington Post notes the underlying sadness beneath the energetic narrative. The New York Times highlights her original, incisive voice and the power and beauty of her writing. Harper’s Magazine draws comparisons to Lucia Berlin for Howland's keen observations and tonal range.

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INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781529035926

Publisher: Pan Macmillan

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 27 July 2023

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Picador

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 13.0mm

Width: 129.0mm

Height: 197.0mm

Weight: 122g

Pages: 160

About the Author

Bette Howland (1937-2017) was the author of three books: W-3, Blue in Chicago, and Things to Come and Go. She received a MacArthur Fellowship in 1984, after which, though she continued writing, she would not publish another book. Near the end of her life, her stories found new readers when a portfolio of her work appeared in a special issue of A Public Space magazine exploring a generation of women writers, their lifetimes of work, and questions of anonymity and public attention in art.

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