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The Surprising Purpose of Anger

Beyond Anger Management: Finding the Gift
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When anger strikes, it often feels overwhelming and destructive. In The Surprising Purpose of Anger, Marshall B. Rosenberg introduces the Non-violent Communication (NVC) process as a powerful alternative to typical reactions. Rather than suppressing or exploding with anger, the book teaches how to understand anger as a signal pointing to unmet needs and disconnection from personal values. By recognising that anger stems from personal judgements, readers learn to clarify their own needs and develop constructive strategies that satisfy everyone involved.
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This insightful guide is ideal for readers interested in self-help, personal development, and improving emotional intelligence. It will particularly resonate with those seeking healthier ways to manage anger and cultivate deeper connections through compassionate communication.

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Rather than managing your anger by suppressing your feelings or blasting someone with your judgements, this title shows you how to use anger to discover what you need, and then how to meet your needs in constructive ways.

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You can feel it when it hits you. Your face flushes and your vision narrows. Your heartbeat increases as judgmental thoughts flood your mind. Your anger has been triggered, and you are about to say or do something that will likely make it worse. You have an alternative.

By practising the Non-violent Communication (NVC) process you can use that anger to serve a specific, life-enriching purpose. It tells you that you're disconnected from what you value and that your needs are not being met.

Rather than managing your anger by suppressing your feelings or blasting someone with your judgements, Marshall Rosenberg shows you how to use anger to discover what you need, and then how to meet your needs in constructive ways. This book will help you apply these four key truths:

  • People or events may spark your anger but your own judgements are its cause.
  • Judging others as 'wrong' prevents you from connecting with your unmet needs.
  • Getting clear about your needs helps you identify solutions satisfying to everyone.
  • Creating strategies focused on meeting your needs transforms anger into positive actions.

The Surprising Purpose of Anger guides you in harnessing the power of anger to improve your life and enrich your relationships.

Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781892005151

Publisher: Puddle Dancer Press

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 01 April 2005

Country: United States

Imprint: Puddle Dancer Press

Illustration: Illustrations

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 5.0mm

Width: 136.0mm

Height: 212.0mm

Weight: 77g

Pages: 48

About the Author

Marshall B Rosenberg PhD

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