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The Kindness Method

The Highly Effective (and extremely enjoyable) Way to Change Your Habits
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The Kindness Method by Shahroo Izadi offers a revolutionary approach to lasting personal change through self-kindness. Drawing from her own experience of overcoming yo-yo dieting and professional expertise as a Behavioural Change Specialist, Shahroo presents a compassionate and non-judgemental method. The book teaches how to map habits, set personalised goals, and strengthen willpower as if it were a muscle, all tailored to the individual. Though gentle in technique, the method promises profound results for challenges ranging from weight loss and addiction to procrastination, empowering readers to embrace sustainable change.
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The Kindness Method is ideal for readers interested in self-help and personal development, particularly those seeking compassionate, sustainable strategies for overcoming habits related to weight, addiction, or procrastination. Professionals in behavioural health and wellness may also find valuable insights in Shahroo Izadi's practical, non-judgemental techniques.

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A friendly and incredibly effective approach to self-help and self-improvement by Behavioural Change Specialist Shahroo Izadi, as seen on Davina McCall's Begin Again podcast.

Unlock the key to real, lasting change with The Kindness Method

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A game-changing book. - Evening Standard

Map your habits, set your own goals and treat yourself with the kindness you truly deserve.

Shahroo Izadi has a revolutionary message: treating yourself kindly is the only way to make changes that last. She is living proof that her method works – after years of yo-yo dieting she shed over eight stone (and has kept it off ever since). Professional training coupled with personal experience led her to develop The Kindness Method, a totally non-judgemental approach which turns strict regimes upside down to leave you feeling empowered, positive and ready to embrace change.

In The Kindness Method, Behavioural Change Specialist Shahroo invites you first, to give yourself a break – life can be stressful – and then learn how to strengthen your willpower like a muscle so you can sustain motivation for the long haul. These techniques may seem gentle, but the results are life-changing because the plan is tailored to you, and they can work for everything from alcohol addiction to procrastination to weight loss. By using the same techniques that she has used to help substance addicts recover from dependence, you too will find that you have the power to change – for good.

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Steven Bartlett calls it 'a powerful way to break even the most stubborn bad habit so you can live the life you deserve.' Bryony Gordon, bestselling author of Mad Girl, praises Shahroo as 'the real deal' with a 'safe and sassy presence.' Gemma Cairney, BBC Radio 1 presenter, highlights Shahroo's 'refreshing, non-judgmental and very contemporary' approach to alcohol. Support from Dominic Ruffy of the Amy Winehouse Foundation and Marisa Bate of The Pool emphasise the compassionate and effective nature of Shahroo's work. Reviews celebrate kindness as central to lasting behavioural change.

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INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781509881833

Publisher: Pan Macmillan

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 27 May 2021

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Bluebird

Audience: General / adult, Tertiary education, Professional and scholarly

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 14.0mm

Width: 129.0mm

Height: 197.0mm

Weight: 153g

Pages: 208

About the Author

Shahroo Izadi is a Behavioural Change Specialist. In the summer of 2016 she was featured in the Pool in a personal series of articles with journalist Marisa Bate, who went to Shahroo for help in looking at her alcohol use. Almost overnight, her private practice had a months long waiting list and she was inundated with press requests. Shahroo's work has been featured on BBC Radio 1, Red magazine, the Telegraph and Psychologies. Shahroo is a support group facilitator and therapist at Amy's Place, a recovery house for women set up by The Amy Winehouse Foundation and a Senior Consultant for Vital Signs, who deliver professional development training and advisory services for leading health and social care organisations.

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