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Rewriting the Rules
An Anti Self-Help Guide to Love, Sex and Relationships
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Ideal for readers navigating love and relationships in today’s changing social landscape, including those questioning traditional norms, exploring non-monogamy, or seeking a more personalised approach to intimacy and commitment.
Rewriting the Rules: An Anti Self-Help Guide to Love, Sex and Relationships is a friendly guide through the complicated - and often contradictory - advice that's given about sex and gender, monogamy and conflict, break-up and commitment.
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We live in a time of uncertainty about relationships. We search for The One but find ourselves staying single because nobody measures up. We long for a happily-ever-after, but breakup after breakup leaves us bruised and confused.
Rewriting the Rules: An Anti Self-Help Guide to Love, Sex and Relationships is a friendly guide through the complicated—and often contradictory—advice given about sex and gender, monogamy and conflict, breakup and commitment. It asks questions about the rules of love, such as which to choose from all the rules on offer? Do we stick to the old rules we learnt growing up, or do we try something new and risk being out on our own? And what about the times when the rules we live by seem to make things worse, rather than better?
This new edition, updated throughout, considers how the rules are being 'rewritten' in various ways—for example, in monogamish and polyamorous relationships, different ways of understanding sex and gender, and new ideas for managing commitment and breakup where economics, communities, or childcare make complete separation impossible. This book considers how the rules are being rewritten in various ways, giving you the power to find an approach that best fits your situation.
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Esteemed voices in relationship therapy and writing praise this book for its insightful and open-minded guidance. Dossie Easton calls it a liberating read that empowers individuals to craft their own relationship rules, while Esther Perel regards it as a sharp and friendly companion through the complexities of modern love, worthy of close attention.
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ISBN: 9781138043596
Publisher: Taylor & Francis Ltd
Format: Paperback / softback
Date Published: 14 March 2018
Country: United Kingdom
Imprint: Routledge
Edition: 2nd edition
Illustration: 10 Tables, black and white; 2 Line drawings, black and white; 37 Halftones, black and white
Audience: General / adult
DIMENSIONS
Width: 138.0mm
Height: 216.0mm
Weight: 482g
Pages: 402
About the Author
Dr. Meg-John Barker is the author of popular books including Queer: A Graphic History, How to Understand Your Gender, Enjoy Sex (How, When and IF You Want To), The Psychology of Sex, and The Secrets of Enduring Love. They bring years of experience and expertise from therapy, academic research, and working in communities to the topics of sex, gender, and relationships. You can read Meg-John's blog to accompany this book at rewriting-the-rules.com.
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