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Lonely AF

A Therapist's No-BS Guide to Feeling Less Alone
Brief Description
You're not alone in feeling lonely—learn to break the cycle of disconnection and build meaningful relationships with yourself and others. Lonely AF is about understanding why so many of us struggle with feeling alone—and what we can do about it. In this book, trauma-informed therapist Dr.... Read More
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You're not alone in feeling lonely—learn to break the cycle of disconnection and build meaningful relationships with yourself and others.

Lonely AF is about understanding why so many of us struggle with feeling alone—and what we can do about it. In this book, trauma-informed therapist Dr. Sylvia Kalicinski dives into the real and raw feelings of loneliness that she knows all too well. As a first-generation American born to Polish immigrant parents, she experienced emotional loneliness early in life. Her mother passed away when she was just two years old. By high school, she was living alone while her father, who struggled with alcohol, worked overseas. Years later, she would face a new kind of loneliness in adulthood, navigating the storm of postpartum rage after the birth of her son.

These lived experiences, combined with years of clinical expertise, shaped her no-fluff, deeply compassionate approach to emotional healing.

Following Dr. Kalicinski's HEART Method, Lonely AF will help you:

  • Break the cycle of emotional disconnection and create meaningful, secure relationships with others—and yourself.
  • Learn practical tools to create authentic connections and heal from past emotional pain.
  • Redefine your identity by separating from old narratives and embracing personal transformation.
  • Feel supported and less alone with heartfelt reflections from Dr. Kalicinski's personal journey and client case studies.

With warmth and wisdom, Dr. Kalicinski offers a path forward to emotional healing—one that helps you confront loneliness without shame and build the authentic relationships you deserve.

Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781394345564

Publisher: John Wiley & Sons Inc

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 03 March 2026

Country: United States

Imprint: Jossey-Bass Inc.,U.S.

Contributors:

  • Foreword by Gina Moffa

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Weight: 250g

Pages: 352

About the Author

Sylvia Kalicinski, PhD, LMFT, is a therapist, speaker, and host of The Dr. Sylvia K Show podcast. A former Lead Clinician at Mount Sinai Medical Center, she has over twenty-one years of experience working with trauma, emotional isolation, and relational wounds. With advanced training at the C.G. Jung Institute of Los Angeles, certified in MBSR and EMDR, and holding a PhD in Family Therapy, she brings a warm, grounded, no-BS approach to reframing and healing loneliness.

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