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How to Say No

An Ancient Guide to the Art of Cynicism
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How to Say No by Diogenes explores the art of setting boundaries and the importance of assertiveness in personal and professional relationships. Drawing from philosophical insights and psychological principles, the book provides guidance on maintaining self-respect and integrity while effectively handling societal pressures and expectations. Through engaging anecdotes and practical advice, it empowers readers to confidently refuse unfair demands without guilt.
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If you are looking to assert your boundaries while exploring philosophical insights, this book might appeal to you. By blending philosophical thought with practical psychology, it offers insightful strategies on the power and importance of saying no, encouraging personal empowerment and wisdom in everyday life.

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An entertaining and enlightening collection of ancient writings about the philosophers who advocated simple living and rejected unthinking conformity.

The Cynics were ancient Greek philosophers who stood athwart the flood of society's material excess, unexamined conventions, and even norms of politeness and thundered 'No!' Diogenes, the most famous Cynic, wasn't shy about literally extending his middle finger to the world, expressing mock surprise that 'most people go crazy over a finger.' When asked why he was called Diogenes the Dog, he replied, 'because I fawn on those who give, I bark at those who don't, and I bite scoundrels.' How to Say No is a delightful collection of brief ancient writings about Cynicism that captures all the outrageousness, wit, and wisdom of its remarkable cast of characters—from Diogenes in the fourth century BCE to the column-stander Symeon Stylites in late antiquity.

With their 'less is more' approach to life, the Cynics speak urgently to our world of climate change, economic uncertainty, and psychic malaise. Although the Cynics weren't writers, their memorable utterances and behaviour were recorded by their admirers and detractors, and M. D. Usher offers fresh new translations of appealing selections from this body of writing—ranging from street sermons and repartee to biography and snapshots of Cynics in action.

Complete with introductions to the volume and each selection as well as the original Greek and Latin on facing pages, this lively book demonstrates why the Cynics still retain their power to surprise us and make us laugh—and to make us think and question how we live.

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Reviews highlight that How to Say No is an engaging and well-translated work, showcasing the diverse and intriguing aspects of the Cynic lifestyle. The book draws parallels with historical figures like Socrates and Buddha, noting the oral tradition through which their teachings have endured. Vivid anecdotes within the text preserve the Cynics' legacy, emphasising their lasting influence on philosophy.

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Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9780691229850

Publisher: Princeton University Press

Format: Hardback

Date Published: 18 October 2022

Country: United States

Imprint: Princeton University Press

Contributors:

  • Translated with commentary by M. D. Usher
  • Edited and translated by M. D. Usher
  • Edited and translated by Mark D. Usher

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Width: 114.0mm

Height: 171.0mm

Weight: 250g

Pages: 248

About the Author

M. D. Usher is the Lyman-Roberts Professor of Classical Languages and Literature and a member of the Department of Geography and Geosciences at the University of Vermont. With his wife, he also built, owns, and operates Works & Days Farm in Shoreham, Vermont. His previous books include How to Be a Farmer: An Ancient Guide to Life on the Land (Princeton), Plato's Pigs and Other Ruminations, and a number of books for children, including Diogenes.

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