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Do I Have to Wear Black to a Funeral?

112 Etiquette Guidelines for the New Rules of Death
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Do I Have to Wear Black to a Funeral? by Florence Isaacs is a practical guide addressing common questions about grief, funerals, and memorial customs. Drawing on her experience as a blogger for Legacy.com, Isaacs provides straightforward advice on everything from the etiquette of funeral attire to the nuances of eulogies, including modern considerations like social media condolences. The book offers clear, sensitive guidance for navigating the changing landscape of mourning rituals.
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Ideal for readers seeking clear, no-nonsense advice on funeral etiquette and grief, particularly millennials and those unfamiliar with modern mourning practices. Also useful for older generations adapting to new customs around death and remembrance.

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Everything you ever wanted to know about funeral etiquette but were afraid to ask

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When is attending a funeral or memorial service “a must,” and when is it optional? Can a eulogy be funny? Can I scatter my brother's ashes in the backyard? Should I place a death notice or an obituary? What's the difference?

These are all questions that Florence Isaacs has been asked as a blogger for Legacy.com, a role that earned her the nickname of the “Dear Abby of Death.”

In Do I Have to Wear Black to a Funeral?, she answers urgent questions about grief, funerals, different religious ceremonies, and more, offering practical guidelines for modern situations—and, yes, what to wear. Isaacs' honest, often entertaining, responses provide no-nonsense information to millennials, while also helping older generations navigate new waters, like how to send condolences through social media. She offers fresh insights, plus an etiquette map of the right things to do and say, in her familiar, sensitive, and sincere style.

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ISBN: 9781682683569

Publisher: WW Norton & Co

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 14 January 2020

Country: United States

Imprint: Countryman Press Inc.

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 15.0mm

Width: 142.0mm

Height: 211.0mm

Weight: 211g

Pages: 176

About the Author

Florence Isaacs is the “Dear Abby of Death.” For many years, she wrote two blogs every month for Legacy.com, the world’s largest commercial provider of online obituaries and memorials. She lives in New York City.

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