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The Asshole Survival Guide

How to Deal with People Who Treat You Like Dirt
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The Asshole Survival Guide by Robert I. Sutton offers a sharp and practical strategy for those beleaguered by difficult people at work or in life. Building on his well-known The No Asshole Rule, Sutton diagnoses various types of toxic behaviour and presents evidence-based methods to avoid, outwit, disarm, and deflect negativity. The guide also encourages self-reflection to mitigate one's own challenging tendencies, aiming to safeguard your mental well-being and preserve your peace amidst workplace turbulence.
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The ultimate prescriptive handbook for preserving your own civility, sanity, and success when facing a business world full of unsavory people

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"This book is a contemporary classic—a shrewd and spirited guide to protecting ourselves from the jerks, bullies, tyrants, and trolls who seek to demean. We desperately need this antidote to the a-holes in our midst."—Daniel H. Pink, best-selling author of To Sell Is Human and Drive

How to avoid, outwit, and disarm assholes, from the author of the classic The No Asshole Rule

As entertaining as it is useful, The Asshole Survival Guide delivers a cogent and methodical game plan for anybody who feels plagued by assholes. Sutton starts with diagnosis—what kind of asshole problem, exactly, are you dealing with? From there, he provides field-tested, evidence-based, and often surprising strategies for dealing with assholes—avoiding them, outwitting them, disarming them, sending them packing, and developing protective psychological armour. Sutton even teaches readers how to look inward to stifle their own inner jackass.

Ultimately, this survival guide is about developing an outlook and personal plan that will help you preserve the sanity in your work life, and rescue all those perfectly good days from being ruined by some jerk.

"Thought-provoking and often hilarious . . . An indispensable resource."—Gretchen Rubin, best-selling author of The Happiness Project and Better Than Before

"At last . . . clear steps for rejecting, deflecting, and deflating the jerks who blight our lives . . . Useful, evidence-based, and fun to read."—Robert Cialdini, best-selling author of Influence and Pre-Suasion

Book Details

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ISBN: 9781328511669

Publisher: Harper Business

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 04 September 2018

Country: United States

Imprint: Harper Business

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 20.0mm

Width: 135.0mm

Height: 203.0mm

Weight: 204g

Pages: 224

About the Author

ROBERT SUTTON is a Stanford University professor and author of six management books, including the New York Times bestsellers The No Asshole Rule and Good Boss, Bad Boss. He is an IDEO fellow and cofounder of the Stanford Technology Ventures Program and the Stanford Design Institute.

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