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The Art of Fighting

The Transformative Power of Conflict
By Priya Parker
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A paradigm-shattering exploration of how we disagree and how to do it more effectively. A groundbreaking exploration of how we fight and how we build healthy conflict, from the author of The Art of Gathering. We say we want community. Successful teams, dynamic friend groups, and... Read More
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A paradigm-shattering exploration of how we disagree and how to do it more effectively.

A groundbreaking exploration of how we fight and how we build healthy conflict, from the author of The Art of Gathering.

We say we want community. Successful teams, dynamic friend groups, and high-performing colleagues. Yet, many of us don't understand the crucial element we need to forge long-lasting communities—healthy conflict.

Although most of us fear conflict, fighting can be an opportunity to broaden our perspectives, reach new breakthroughs, and bring us even closer together. The Art of Fighting teaches the transformative art of 'healthy heat' and how it can help us overcome any disagreement—from book club squabbles to boardroom brawls.

Priya Parker draws on her original research, real-world examples, and her far-reaching experience to offer an authoritative and expansive guide to the challenges, nuances, and endless opportunities of conflict.

Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9780241830987

Publisher: Penguin Books Ltd

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 10 September 2026

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Penguin Life

Audience: General / adult, Tertiary education, Professional and scholarly

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 20.0mm

Width: 153.0mm

Height: 234.0mm

Weight: 350g

Pages: 272

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About the Author

PRIYA PARKER is a facilitator, strategic advisor, and acclaimed author of The Art of Gathering. Trained in the field of conflict resolution, Parker has worked on peace processes across the world and advised Zohran Mamdani for his successful New York City mayoral campaign. She studied organizational design at M.I.T., public policy at the Harvard Kennedy School, and political and social thought at the University of Virginia.

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