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The Joy of Being Selfish

Why You Need Boundaries and How to Set Them
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The Joy of Being Selfish by Michelle Elman explores the importance of setting boundaries to improve personal well-being and relationships. The book provides practical advice and insights into how embracing selfishness in the right way can lead to a healthier, more balanced life by allowing individuals to assert their needs confidently. Through personal anecdotes and strategic tips, the author empowers readers to reclaim their time and energy.
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If you're feeling overwhelmed by the demands of others and need guidance on setting healthy boundaries, you might enjoy this book. It offers practical advice and empowering insights to help you prioritise your own needs without guilt, fostering a more balanced and fulfilling personal and professional life.

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A self-help book about self-love combined with boundaries - the practical side of self-love. How to reclaim selfishness as a force for good.

Life coach and influencer '@scarrednotscared' Michelle Elman is here to teach you about reclaiming your life through the art of boundaries.

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'A practical guide that will reclaim your time, energy and self-belief' - Stylist

Do you frequently say 'yes' to people and events to keep those around you happy?

Do you often find yourself emotionally exhausted and physically drained?

Do people describe you as a pushover or 'too nice'?

It's time to discover the joy of being selfish and reclaim your life through the art of boundaries!

Life coach and influencer @scarrednotscared Michelle Elman is here to teach you the practical side of self-love. Creating and upholding strong boundaries will teach others how to treat you, rid your life of drama and toxic relationships, and allow you to love yourself and others in the best way you can.

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The Joy of Being Selfish by Michelle Elman is praised for its practical guidance on setting and maintaining personal boundaries. Readers appreciate its empowering impact, with many finding it transformational in both personal and professional spheres. Elman's approach to self-love and self-care resonates particularly well, encouraging readers to prioritise their well-being and confidently embrace the notion of being 'selfish' for personal growth.

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INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781787395978

Publisher: Headline Publishing Group

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 06 January 2022

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Welbeck

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 26.0mm

Width: 128.0mm

Height: 196.0mm

Weight: 290g

Pages: 320

About the Author

Michelle Elman is a five-board accredited life coach, author and broadcaster. Best known for her campaign Scarred Not Scared, Michelle has established herself as the Queen of Boundaries, sharing her experiences and expertise with a combined social media following of over 400,000. Michelle hosts her own podcast 'In All Honesty' and is a prolific public speaker with her TedX talk being viewed 60,000 times. Michelle was also named as one of the Sun's 50 most inspirational women in the UK and was recognised as one of the top 100 creatives creating change. Her debut book Am I Ugly? was released in 2018, followed by The Joy of Being Selfish in 2021.

You can find her at @MichelleLElman on Instagram, TikTok and Twitter.

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