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The Enduring Kiss

Seven Short Lessons on Love
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In The Enduring Kiss by Massimo Recalcati, the author delves into the profound significance and symbolic resonance of the kiss, examining its role in human connection and desire. This philosophical exploration traverses the realms of psychoanalysis and love, offering insights into how a simple gesture can encapsulate complex emotions and relationships. Through engaging reflections, Recalcati challenges our understanding of intimacy and passion.
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This book may appeal to you if you're intrigued by the philosophy and psychology of love and the symbolic power of a kiss. Massimo Recalcati explores the depths of human emotions and relationships, providing a thoughtful analysis that blends academic insight with accessible storytelling.

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"First published in 2019 with the title Manieni il bacio"--Verso.

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The kiss is the image that, perhaps more than any other, encompasses the beauty and poetry of love. Every love is required to maintain the kiss, to make it last. When they kiss, lovers carve out their hiding holes, finding their peace from war. When they kiss, the noise of the world is silenced, its laws broken, time is stolen from its normal continuity. They fall together in their distinct, embraced tongues. The kiss joins the tongue that declares love with the body of the lover. The extinction of the kiss and, most importantly, of the desire to kiss one’s beloved announces the demise of love.

In this short book, Massimo Recalcati – one of Italy’s leading intellectuals and bestselling authors – offers seven brief lessons on the mystery and miracle of love. From the serendipity of the first encounter to its end or its continuation over time, each lesson is as mysterious and miraculous as the first encounter itself.

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The Enduring Kiss by Massimo Recalcati is praised for its provocative and persuasive insights on love. Reviewers note that the book elegantly navigates the complexities of love through literature and philosophy, while critiquing the influence of capitalism on desire. The prose is described as lyrical and impactful, likening it to poetry that provides flashes of wisdom.

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INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781509542482

Publisher: John Wiley and Sons Ltd

Format: Hardback

Date Published: 22 January 2021

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Polity Press

Contributors:

  • Translated by Alice Kilgarriff
  • Translated by Alice Kilgarriff

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 13.0mm

Width: 130.0mm

Height: 201.0mm

Weight: 204g

Pages: 112

About the Author

Massimo RecalcatiΒ is a psychoanalyst who teaches at the universities of Pavia and Verona.

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