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The Son's Secret
From Oedipus to the Prodigal Son
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This reflective work will appeal to parents, educators, and readers interested in family dynamics and psycho-social development.
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See more"First published in 2017 in Italian under the title Il Secreto [sic] del Figlio."
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This new book by Massimo Recalcati focuses on the psycho-social life of the son. Comparing and contrasting the tragic story of Oedipus by Sophocles and the parable of the prodigal son, Recalcati argues that all common parenting strategies, whether authoritarian or democratic, are attempts at sealing the fate of sons – that is, they are designed to ensure that sons realise the dreams and fantasies of the parents.
But all that sons want – and this is their secret because they generally do not want, or are unable, to confront their parents directly – is to be recognised as unique, as different, as independent, free-thinking individuals who are able to chart their own path in life, rather than extensions of their parents' fantasies. The parents' task is to acknowledge this, and to create the space for this desire to flourish.
Continuing his remarkable reflections on parents, children and family life, this new book by one of Italy's leading and bestselling public intellectuals will be of interest to a wide general readership.
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ISBN: 9781509531769
Publisher: John Wiley and Sons Ltd
Format: Paperback / softback
Date Published: 05 March 2020
Country: United Kingdom
Imprint: Polity Press
Contributors:
- Translated by Alice Kilgarriff
- Translated by Alice Kilgarriff
Audience: General / adult
DIMENSIONS
Spine width: 11.0mm
Width: 130.0mm
Height: 196.0mm
Weight: 136g
Pages: 120
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About the Author
Massimo Recalcati is a bestselling author and psychoanalyst who teaches at the universities of Pavia and Verona.
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