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Love First

A Family's Guide to Intervention
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Love First by Jeff Jay and Debra Jay offers a compassionate guide to helping loved ones struggling with addiction by using an innovative intervention approach. The authors focus on building a circle of support to gently guide individuals towards recovery, emphasising love and empathy. This self-help book combines practical strategies with personal stories to empower families to act in their loved ones' best interests.
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You might enjoy this book if you're interested in learning effective ways to help loved ones who are struggling with addiction. It offers guidance on approaching this sensitive issue with compassion and structure, making it ideal for those seeking practical and empathetic strategies for intervention.

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This revised and expanded third edition of the gold-standard for intervention provides clear steps for harnessing the power of family, friends, and professionals to create a better future with loved ones suffering from addiction.

Over the course of the last twenty years, Love First has become the go-to intervention guide for tens of thousands of families. This trailblazing book empowers and equips families and friends to use the power of love and honesty to give their addicted loved ones a chance to reach for help.

Updated with the latest addiction science as well as insights gained from decades of front-line experience in family interventions, this revised and expanded edition contains practical tools for taking the next step together: transforming the intervention team into an ongoing community of loving support, lasting accountability, and lifelong recovery.

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Love First by Jeff and Debra Jay is highly praised by experts in the field of addiction intervention. Reviews commend its approach centred on love, acceptance, and positivity, making it an invaluable tool for families dealing with addiction. It is lauded for providing a compassionate, systematic path for intervention and recovery, benefiting both professionals and families. The book is considered essential reading for understanding and supporting those struggling with addiction while maintaining family integrity and fostering long-term recovery.

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Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781616499099

Publisher: Hazelden Information & Educational Services

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 04 May 2021

Country: United States

Imprint: Hazelden Information & Educational Services

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Width: 152.0mm

Height: 229.0mm

Weight: 250g

Pages: 340

About the Author

Jeff Jay, CIP,Β is a professional interventionist, educator, and author. He has been working full time in the substance abuse treatment field since 1986, including work for the Hazelden Foundation. He is a graduate of the University ofΒ MinnesotaΒ andΒ is a Certified Intervention Professional. He has appeared as an expert on CNN, PBS, andΒ The Jane Pauley Show.Β Jeff has served as president of the Terry McGovern Foundation in Washington, DC, and on the boards of directors for several professional organizations. He and Debra Jay head a national private practice that provides intervention and crisis management services. He is a former clinician with Sacred Heart Rehabilitation Center.Β 

Jeff specializes in complex interventions for impaired professionals. He is also skilled in working with baby boomers, older adults, and younger adults. His expertise is sought after for cases which are complicated by psychological issues, such as anxiety disorders, bipolar disease and trauma. He also conducts interventions for eating disorders, gambling addiction, sex addiction, and other issues. His personal recovery from addiction dates from October 4,Β 1981.Β β€œI believe in intervention for a very simple reason,” says Jeff.Β β€œIntervention saved my life.” 

Debra Jay is a noted author, speaker, and trainer for addiction professionals.Β SheΒ was a guest lecturer for Wayne State University graduate studies on addiction for fourteen years. She has been writing a newspaper advice column on families and addiction since 1996. She has served as board member for Brighton Hospital, St. John Providence Health System, and Dawn Farm. She is a recipient of the 2012 Letitia M. Close B.V.M Award in recognition of a significant ministry in helping women with the disease of addiction.Β 

Debra was the addiction expert onΒ The Oprah Winfrey ShowΒ for 3 seasons and has appeared onΒ The Dr. Oz Show. She is a graduate of The Ohio State University and the Hazelden Addiction Professionals Training Program.Β 

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