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The Relationships Workbook for BPD

Skills to Cultivate Emotional Safety, Deepen Understanding, and Build Stronger Connections
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It's time to understand why you struggle in relationships—and learn the skills needed to build deeper, healthier connections with those you love. Are intense emotions creating chaos in your relationships? Do you fall in love or make friends quickly, only to have those relationships fall apart... Read More
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It's time to understand why you struggle in relationships—and learn the skills needed to build deeper, healthier connections with those you love.

Are intense emotions creating chaos in your relationships? Do you fall in love or make friends quickly, only to have those relationships fall apart and lead to feelings of hatred or resentment? Do you have a fear of abandonment, but then pull away when things get too close? Unstable and high-conflict relationships are a hallmark of borderline personality disorder (BPD). But you can learn to calm your emotions, manage your fears, and build healthy relationships. This compassionate workbook will show you how, step by step.

The Relationships Workbook for BPD offers a safe space to help you explore the beliefs, behaviours, and patterns that sabotage your connection with others, so you can build strong, trusting, and healthy relationships instead. You'll start by learning more about BPD and how you can manage the intense emotions that arise during conflict. You'll also discover strategies to help you avoid "losing yourself" in relationships. Finally, you'll learn how distorted expectations and insecurity can undermine your relationships, and how to recognise unhelpful relationship habits in the future.

If you're ready for a calmer and more connected life, this empowering workbook will help you balance your emotions, overcome your fears, and create strong and healthy relationships.

Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781648486050

Publisher: New Harbinger Publications

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 29 January 2026

Country: United States

Imprint: New Harbinger Publications

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 14.0mm

Width: 202.0mm

Height: 254.0mm

Weight: 400g

Pages: 200

About the Author

Daniel J. Fox, PhD, is a licensed psychologist in Texas, international speaker, and multi-award-winning author. He has been specializing in the treatment and assessment of individuals with personality disorders for more than twenty years in the state and federal prison system, universities, and in private practice. Fox shares insights and treatment strategies for personality disorders and other forms of mental illness on his website and social media. His online content has been recognized as a valuable resource for both professionals and individuals seeking to understand and manage psychological conditions. Fox maintains a website and is on social media to present various treatment interventions focused on working with individuals along the antisocial, borderline, narcissistic, and histrionic personality spectrum.

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