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Notes on Heartbreak
The Must-Read Book by Vogue's Dating Columnist
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See moreDark, fierce and incisive, Annie Lord's Notes on Heartbreak is a stunning exploration of love and heartbreak from the acclaimed Vogue columnist.
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Arresting and vivid, raw and breathtaking... told with stunning originality – DOLLY ALDERTON, author of EVERYTHING I KNOW ABOUT LOVE
Annie Lord tells us a story at once both specific and universal – SHON FAYE, author of THE TRANSGENDER ISSUE
An electrifying debut – CAROLINE O'DONOGHUE, author of THE RACHEL INCIDENT
Dark, fierce and raw, Notes on Heartbreak is a love story told in reverse...
Reeling from a broken heart, Annie Lord revisits the past - from the moment she first fell in love, the shared in-jokes and intertwining of a long-term relationship, to the months that saw the slow erosion of a bond five years in the making.
Charting her attempts to move on, Annie explores the ups and downs of being newly single, from disastrous rebound sex to sending ill-advised nudes, stalking your ex's new girlfriend on Instagram and the sharp indignity of being ghosted.
This stunning exploration of love and heartbreak from cult journalist and Vogue columnist Annie Lord, is so much more than a book about one singular break-up. It is an unflinchingly honest account of the simultaneous joy and pain of being in love that will resonate with anyone who has ever nursed a broken heart.
It's a book about the best and worst of love: the euphoric and the painful, the beautiful and the messy.
Perfect for fans of Everything I Know About Love, Conversations on Love and Three Women.
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Notes on Heartbreak by Annie Lord offers a raw and honest exploration of the end of a long-term relationship, earning praise for its unflinching portrayal of love and loss. Critics highlight Lord's relatable and poetic writing style, which manages to articulate the universal yet personal nature of heartbreak. Her debut book, noted for both its humour and emotional depth, captures the intricacies of romantic entanglements and the profound impact of a breakup on one's life.
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INFORMATION
ISBN: 9781398705494
Publisher: Orion Publishing Co
Format: Paperback / softback
Date Published: 22 June 2023
Country: United Kingdom
Imprint: Trapeze
Audience: General / adult
DIMENSIONS
Spine width: 28.0mm
Width: 126.0mm
Height: 196.0mm
Weight: 300g
Pages: 400
About the Author
Annie Lord is Vogue's dating columnist. Other publications that feature her work include VICE, The Sunday Times, The Telegraph, New Statesman, i-D, The Guardian, The Quietus and Dazed.
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