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Notes on Heartbreak

The Must-Read Book by Vogue's Dating Columnist
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Notes on Heartbreak by Annie Lord is a poignant exploration of the emotional complexities following a breakup. Through deeply personal reflections, the author navigates the ups and downs of lost love, intertwined with thoughts on family dynamics and personal growth. It's a heartfelt journey of self-discovery and healing.
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You might enjoy this book if you appreciate heartfelt and relatable narratives about personal growth and healing in the aftermath of a relationship's end. It offers a raw exploration of emotions, perfect for readers interested in themes of love, loss, and rediscovery.

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Dark, fierce and incisive, Annie Lord's Notes on Heartbreak is a stunning exploration of love and heartbreak from the acclaimed Vogue columnist.

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Arresting and vivid, raw and breathtaking... told with stunning originality – DOLLY ALDERTON, author of EVERYTHING I KNOW ABOUT LOVE

Annie Lord tells us a story at once both specific and universal – SHON FAYE, author of THE TRANSGENDER ISSUE

An electrifying debut – CAROLINE O'DONOGHUE, author of THE RACHEL INCIDENT

Dark, fierce and raw, Notes on Heartbreak is a love story told in reverse...

Reeling from a broken heart, Annie Lord revisits the past - from the moment she first fell in love, the shared in-jokes and intertwining of a long-term relationship, to the months that saw the slow erosion of a bond five years in the making.

Charting her attempts to move on, Annie explores the ups and downs of being newly single, from disastrous rebound sex to sending ill-advised nudes, stalking your ex's new girlfriend on Instagram and the sharp indignity of being ghosted.

This stunning exploration of love and heartbreak from cult journalist and Vogue columnist Annie Lord, is so much more than a book about one singular break-up. It is an unflinchingly honest account of the simultaneous joy and pain of being in love that will resonate with anyone who has ever nursed a broken heart.

It's a book about the best and worst of love: the euphoric and the painful, the beautiful and the messy.

Perfect for fans of Everything I Know About Love, Conversations on Love and Three Women.

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Notes on Heartbreak by Annie Lord offers a raw and honest exploration of the end of a long-term relationship, earning praise for its unflinching portrayal of love and loss. Critics highlight Lord's relatable and poetic writing style, which manages to articulate the universal yet personal nature of heartbreak. Her debut book, noted for both its humour and emotional depth, captures the intricacies of romantic entanglements and the profound impact of a breakup on one's life.

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Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781398705494

Publisher: Orion Publishing Co

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 22 June 2023

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Trapeze

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 28.0mm

Width: 126.0mm

Height: 196.0mm

Weight: 300g

Pages: 400

About the Author

Annie Lord is Vogue's dating columnist. Other publications that feature her work include VICE, The Sunday Times, The Telegraph, New Statesman, i-D, The Guardian, The Quietus and Dazed.

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