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Notes on Heartbreak

A Memoir
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A Debutiful Best Nonfiction Book of the Year "If you've ever lurked on an ex's Instagram or obsessed over how a relationship fell apart, Notes on Heartbreak might be for you." - Marie Claire "Arresting and vivid, raw and breathtaking . . . told with stunning... Read More
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A Debutiful Best Nonfiction Book of the Year

"If you've ever lurked on an ex's Instagram or obsessed over how a relationship fell apart, Notes on Heartbreak might be for you." - Marie Claire

"Arresting and vivid, raw and breathtaking . . . told with stunning originality. Annie Lord is a phenomenal talent." ―Dolly Alderton, author of Everything I Know About Love

"An electrifying debut." ―Caroline O'Donoghue, author of The Rachel Incident

With the incisive wit and depth of Dolly Alderton and Sally Rooney, a fierce, funny, and unflinching memoir about the exhilaration of love and the pain of its ending, from an acclaimed British Vogue writer.

You never forget your first love—or your first true heartbreak. Annie Lord is going through a devastating breakup after a five-year relationship with someone she thought she'd be with forever. Try as she might, she can't stop reliving the past, obsessively examining every moment that led to this point.

When she's not having disastrous rebound sex or stalking her ex on Instagram, Annie puts every moment of their history under a microscope, trying to understand where things went wrong and why. The answers, when they come, will surprise her as much as anyone.

Notes on Heartbreak is an engrossing and emotionally evocative account of love and loss that will resonate with anyone who has ever nursed a broken heart, been in a codependent relationship, or has come to understand that romantic partnerships are infinitely more complex than what we experience in the moment. It is a deeply personal and insightful book about the best and worst of love and how it can upend our lives: the euphoria and the desolation, the beauty and the cruelty.

Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9780063468498

Publisher: HarperCollins Publishers Inc

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 27 January 2026

Country: United States

Imprint: Collins

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 30.0mm

Width: 132.0mm

Height: 201.0mm

Weight: 318g

Pages: 432

About the Author

Annie Lord is British Vogue's dating columnist and the author of the memoir Notes on Heartbreak. Her work has also appeared in The Guardian, the Sunday Times, Vice, The Telegraph, New Statesman, i-D, The Independent, and Dazed. She lives in London.

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