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When We Were Bad follows the Rubin family in North London during a moment of crisis and revelation. Claudia Rubin, a wife, mother, and rabbi, is at the centre of what should be a joyful wedding celebration for her son Leoโ€”until he unexpectedly jilts his bride. This disruptive act threatens to unravel the family's carefully maintained appearance. Frances, Claudia's daughter, tries to keep the family united but is forced to confront her own life choices. Meanwhile, Claudiaโ€™s husband Norman harbours a secret that threatens to come to light. The story is a witty and poignant literary comedy exploring family dynamics, love, and denial.
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This novel appeals to readers who appreciate literary fiction with sharp wit and emotional depth, particularly those interested in complex family relationships and contemporary social themes. Fans of intelligent, character-driven narratives and those looking for a comedy infused with warmth and insightful observation will find this book engaging.

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Shortlisted for the Women's Prize for Fiction, Charlotte Mendelson's When We Were Bad is a darkly comic and beautiful portrayal of a family in crisis

'The Rubin family, everybody agrees, seems doomed to happiness.'

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When We Were Bad is a spellbinding, witty and poignant portrayal of a family in crisis, in love, and in denial.

'As intelligent as it is funny. A beautifully observed literary comedy as well as a painfully accurate description of one big old family mess. A joy' - Observer

In North London, Claudia Rubin is in her heyday. Wife, mother, rabbi - and sometimes moral voice of the nation - everyone wants to be with her at her son Leo's glorious wedding. That is, until Leo jilts his bride, and the gleaming bubble surrounding the Rubins threatens to burst.

Frances - Claudia's calm, mature, married daughter - tries to hold the nucleus of the family together, but the stress forces her to re-examine her own life, leading her to make a decision as shocking as Leo's choice to bolt.

And Claudia's husband, Norman, has an uncharacteristic secret. And, whether he likes it or not, he is powerless to stop it coming out...

'A comedy with the warmest of hearts and the most deliciously subversive of agendas' - Marie Claire

'Fast-paced and engaging. Brilliant, touching and true' - Naomi Alderman, bestselling author of The Power

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Praised for its intelligence and humour, When We Were Bad is described as a beautifully observed comedy and an accurate portrayal of a family in turmoil. Critics highlight its fast pace, emotional truth, and universal appeal examining themes of sex, spirituality, domesticity, and expectation. The book is commended for its brilliance, inventiveness, and heartfelt yet subversive tone, making it a joyous and dazzling portrait of family life.

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INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781035020195

Publisher: Pan Macmillan

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 17 August 2023

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Picador

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 27.0mm

Width: 130.0mm

Height: 196.0mm

Weight: 241g

Pages: 336

About the Author

Charlotte Mendelson's novels include Daughters of Jerusalem, When We Were Bad, Almost English, and The Exhibitionist. She has won both the Somerset Maugham Award and the John Llewellyn Rhys Prize, has been longlisted for the Man Booker, and has been longlisted and shortlisted for the Women's Prize for Fiction. She is also the author of one work of non-fiction, Rhapsody in Green, and is the gardening correspondent for The New Yorker. She lives in London.

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