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Unplug and Play

The Ultimate Illustrated Guide to Roughhousing with Your Kids
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Unplug and Play explores the importance of rough-and-tumble play in childhood development. Authored by a doctor and a child psychologist, both fathers, the book presents 45 illustrated activities inspired by gymnastics, martial arts, ballet, team sports, and animal behaviour. These fun, physical games encourage resilience, strengthen parent-child bonds, and boost confidence in children from toddlers to those aged 12 and up. This updated edition includes recent child development research and discusses the impact of screen time.
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Ideal for parents, caregivers, and anyone interested in fostering children's physical and emotional development through engaging, active play.

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??Learn how rough-and-tumble play can nurture close connections, encourage resilience, and boost confidence with 45 illustrated activities to get you started.

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Learn how rough-and-tumble play can nurture close connections, encourage resilience, and boost confidence—with 45 illustrated activities to get you started.

"An inspired defense of roughhousing! I guarantee that if you read just a few pages of this book, you'll be down on the floor wrestling and laughing with your children." -Michael Thompson, co-author of the national best seller Raising Cain: Protecting the Emotional Life of Boys

Unplug and Play demonstrates how rough-and-tumble play can nurture relationships, lead to closer connections, encourage resilience, and boost confidence in kids—with 45 illustrated activities to get you started.

Every kid needs horseplay! Roughhousing is an essential part of childhood development—but it is increasingly overshadowed by screens and structured activities. In Unplug and Play, a doctor and a child psychologist, both dads, introduce parents to the benefits of physical play for young children.

Drawing from gymnastics, martial arts, ballet, team sports, and even animal behaviour, the authors present fun full-contact activities for parents and children to enjoy together, including:

  • Human Cannonball
  • Magic Carpet Ride
  • Steamroller
  • Jousting
  • Raucous Pillow Fight
  • And more!

With activities for everyone from toddlers to kids ages 12 and up, you'll build a foundation for a lifetime of enriching physical play.

Previously published as The Art of Roughhousing, this updated edition incorporates new child development research and addresses the changing role of screen time.

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"An inspired defense of roughhousing! I guarantee that if you read just a few pages of this book, you'll be down on the floor wrestling and laughing with your children." — Michael Thompson, co-author of Raising Cain: Protecting the Emotional Life of Boys

"Two dads offer the perfect antidote to helicopter parenting." — Washington Post

"Enthusiastically recommended." — Library Journal (starred review)

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Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781683693499

Publisher: Andrews McMeel Publishing

Format: Hardback

Date Published: 23 February 2023

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Quirk Books

Illustration: Spot line illustrations

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Width: 140.0mm

Height: 191.0mm

Weight: 250g

Pages: 192

About the Author

Anthony T. DeBenedet, M.D. is a practicing physician, behavioral-science enthusiast, and energetic dad. His interviews and writings on play, health, wellness, and behavior have appeared in multiple major media outlets. He is the author of Playful Intelligence- The Power of Living Lightly in a Serious World. He lives in Ann Arbor, Michigan. Lawrence Cohen, Ph.D. is a licensed psychologist, author, and consultant living in Portland, Oregon. He is a regular contributor to Psychology Today and the author of The Opposite of Worry, a book for parents about childhood anxiety and fears, and Playful Parenting, an award-winning book about nurturing close connections, solving behavior problems, and encouraging children's confidence. He specializes in children's play and play therapy.

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