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The Shift
Change Your Perspective, Not Yourself: A Guide to Dating, Self-Worth and Becoming the Main Character of Your Life
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This book is ideal for young adults and social media-savvy readers seeking contemporary and relatable advice on dating, self-worth, and personal empowerment. Fans of lifestyle creators and those looking to shift their mindset with humour and honesty will find The Shift a perfect fit.
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See moreShift your mindset towards self-worth with this empowering guide to modern dating from TikTok's big sister, Tinx.
Shift your mindset towards self-worth with this empowering guide to modern dating from TikTok's big sister, Tinx.
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A guide to dating, self-worth and becoming the main character of your life
It's time to get laser focused on what makes us feel happy and fulfilled. Lifestyle creator, advice expert and podcast host Tinx wants to take your hand and guide you to a new way of thinking about life, love, happiness and friendships—where dating evolves into an era of self-discovery and not just a means to an end, sharing wisdom becomes a collective power, and chaos turns into a source of creativity. Making small but mighty shifts in thinking can be a tool for personal growth that fuels you instead of fatigues you. The point is to know yourself, discover what fulfills you, and have fun along the way.
In The Shift, Tinx collects all her revolutionary theories and hilarious personal anecdotes in one place, presenting you with a guide to simple mindset shifts that will completely change the way you approach decision-making and relationships.
Through her own stories, from the good to the bad, Tinx will help you better understand how to step into your power and own self-worth. Some say you cannot love another before you learn to love yourself: Tinx will teach you how to do both at the same time. And she'll do it while making you laugh out loud.
With her signature wit and honesty, Tinx will teach you:
- How to change your scarcity mindset
- How to understand and employ her famous Box Theory dating concept
- How to feed the things that fulfill you
- How living well is the best revenge
- How therapy can reframe struggles into strengths
- How to break up with dignity
- How knowing your worth makes you a better friend and partner
The lifestyle creator, advice expert and host of the It's Me, Tinx podcast shares her hilarious and (sometimes brutally) honest wisdom on how to shift your approach to life, step into your confidence, and enjoy the journey.
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Praised as "the new guru for the TikTok generation" by Grazia, Tinx is celebrated as the "resident big sister of TikTok" by Vogue. The New York Times describes her as "like an advice columnist but on Instagram," highlighting her relatable and modern approach to personal growth and relationships.
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ISBN: 9781035004645
Publisher: Pan Macmillan
Format: Paperback / softback
Date Published: 25 May 2023
Country: United Kingdom
Imprint: Bluebird
Audience: General / adult
DIMENSIONS
Spine width: 24.0mm
Width: 152.0mm
Height: 233.0mm
Weight: 362g
Pages: 288
About the Author
Tinx (Christina Najjar) is Tinx, is a writer and content creator and the the unofficial 'big sister' of TikTok. Raised in England by American parents, Tinx attended all-girls schools where she was introduced to the importance of female friendships and solidarity. She carried that with her to Stanford University where she studied English literature and creative writing while serving as president of her sorority. She went on to receive her Masters in fashion journalism from Parsons School of Design before becoming a freelance writer. The Shift is her first book.
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