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The Self-LED Internal Family Systems Workbook

Learn Ifs Skills to Understand and Love All Your Parts
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A self-guided workbook to lead yourself through the IFS process and create inner harmony and peace, as endorsed by Dr. Richard C. Schwartz, founder of Internal Family Systems. Transform the way you relate to yourself and your mental health struggles with this clear and structured guide... Read More
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A self-guided workbook to lead yourself through the IFS process and create inner harmony and peace, as endorsed by Dr. Richard C. Schwartz, founder of Internal Family Systems.

Transform the way you relate to yourself and your mental health struggles with this clear and structured guide to Internal Family Systems (IFS), an evidence-based approach to parts work therapy. The IFS model views every person as having an "internal family" of parts or subpersonalities, each with their own set of thoughts, feelings, and roles. Some parts hold pain from the past, while others work to prevent that pain from surfacing. When parts are understood and accepted, they can release this pain and heal.

Developed by a veteran IFS clinician who has lived, practised, and trained others on the IFS model for more than 25 years, The Self-LED Internal Family Systems Workbook can help you connect to your true, authentic Self—which is always inside of you, ready to lead—so you can meet your internal family of parts, respond compassionately when they're activated, and send them healing energy when they need it.

Key features of this workbook:

  • Accessible Self-Paced Process. Move through the IFS practice at your own speed and comfort level using IFS skills that have been adapted for beginners.
  • Clear and Structured Approach. Bring clarity and insight to your internal world by navigating it with step-by-step skills, exercises, and worksheets.
  • Strategies for Common IFS Challenges. Learn to work with parts that keep you stuck in problematic cycles and offer compassion to deeply wounded parts.
  • Transcripts of Self-Led IFS Sessions. See how an IFS clinician works with her own parts to address challenges like perfectionism, impulse control, and more.

"I am very grateful to my friend Tanis Allen for creating this clear, practical workbook for helping people access Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy on their own. Because she knows IFS so well, she not only offers very useful and easily followed exercises but also the important cautions and guidelines to make this powerful work safe. I enthusiastically endorse this book and see it as an important contribution to the big project of helping everyone change their inner relationships and become more Self-led."

- Richard C. Schwartz, PhD, founder of the Internal Family Systems model of psychotherapy

Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9780593886403

Publisher: Random House USA Inc

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 28 January 2025

Country: United States

Imprint: Zeitgeist

Contributors:

  • Foreword by Cece Sykes

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Width: 178.0mm

Height: 229.0mm

Weight: 250g

Pages: 192

About the Author

Tanis Jo Allen, LMSW, ACSW, is a certified IFS psychotherapist in private practice in Ann Arbor, Michigan. She has been practicing, training in, and teaching the IFS model for more than 25 years, having presented many workshops and trainings in the Midwest and Canada, and as a guest lecturer at the University of Michigan. She earned her Master of Social Work and her Bachelor of Arts in Psychology from the University of Michigan. Her professional experience includes clinical social work in education, both mental and physical healthcare settings, and hospice care. Her clinical specializations include anxiety and depression, all forms of eating disorders, grief, loss and trauma issues, adjustment to physical illness, and relationship concerns. As an IFS clinical consultant, she also provides supervision and mentorship to psychotherapists learning the model. Tanis established and directs the IFS Great Lakes Retreat, which is held annually in Northern Michigan.

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