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Tell Me

What Children Really Want to Know About Bodies, Sex and Emotions
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An honest and funny book for children aged 8 and up who really want to know about bodies, sex and emotions – and aren’t afraid to ask. How much sex education do children need? As much as they ask for, says leading sex educationist Katharina von... Read More
Format: Hardback
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Everything children really want to know about sexuality and bodies—and aren’t afraid to ask. This book collects questions asked by boys and girls and answers them directly: the questions are real, the answers honest and the images funny.

"Every family and school needs a book of this kind and this is one of the best we’ve seen: successful around the world and recommended by booksellers—and funny too." Julia Marshall, Publisher

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An honest and funny book for children aged 8 and up who really want to know about bodies, sex and emotions – and aren’t afraid to ask.

How much sex education do children need? As much as they ask for, says leading sex educationist Katharina von der Gathen in this book about navigating puberty. And exactly what do children want to know? Ask them!

What is so important about the body? Why do bodies grow hair? Why do people kiss? Is it embarrassing to have sex? Why do breasts hang down? What does it feel like to be in love? Can a grandmother have children? What is a hormone? Can a child fart when it’s inside a mother’s body? What is sexy?

Expert Katharina von der Gathen collects 99 questions asked anonymously by children in the classroom about the human body, love, and sexuality – the questions are real and the answers are both inclusive, respectful, and direct. Funny images help give children the information they really want to know in a form they can relate to without feeling embarrassed, making this a perfect sex education book for children and teenagers, parents and teachers.

“Children should be familiar with their bodies from an early age. They need words for the various parts of a body, they should learn to name their feelings, to stand up for themselves, to feel strong in their bodies and to keep boundaries without feeling bad.” – Katharina von der Gathen

Designed to be read with spine on top, this age-appropriate book is a handy resource for every family and school classroom discussing puberty, consent, and sexuality from ages 8 and up.

Tell Me is an essential guide for young readers ready to explore these important topics with curiosity and confidence.

Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781776572328

Publisher: Gecko Press

Format: Hardback

Date Published: 01 November 2019

Country: New Zealand

Imprint: Gecko Press

Illustration: Illustrations, color

Contributors:

  • Illustrated by Anke Kuhl

Audience: Children

DIMENSIONS

Width: 140.0mm

Height: 185.0mm

Weight: 300g

Pages: 208

About the Author

Katharina von der Gathen was born in 1972. She works in the area of sex education with children and adolescents from a wide range of backgrounds. She lives in Bonn with her husband and four children.

Anke Kuhl, born in 1970, is one of Germany’s leading children’s book illustrators, whose awards include the German Youth Literature Award in 2011. She lives in Frankfurt with her husband and two children.

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