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She Comes First
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See moreFun, informative, and easy to read, this virtual encyclopedia of female pleasure details dozens of tried-and-true techniques for satisfying a woman and illustrated step-by-step instructions to ensure success.
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She Comes First is quite simply the best guide to oral sex out there. --AskMen.com
The essential guidebook to oral sex, She Comes First offers a radical new philosophy for pleasuring women.
As women everywhere will attest, men are "ill-cliterate." But in the pages of this must-read sex guide, the mystery of female satisfaction is solved, and the tongue is proven mightier than the sword. According to Ian Kerner--sex therapist and evangelist of the female orgasm--oral sex isn't just foreplay; it's coreplay, and is simply the best way to lead a woman through the entire process of arousal time and time again.
Fun, informative, and full of practical sex advice, She Comes First is an encyclopedia of female pleasure, detailing dozens of tried-and-true techniques for consistently satisfying a woman and ensuring mutual sexual fulfilment.
This essential guide for men breaks down the art of female pleasure:
- A New Philosophy of Sex: Discover why author and sex therapist Ian Kerner believes oral sex shouldn't be foreplay, but "coreplay"βthe center of mutual satisfaction.
- Guide to Cunnilingus: Learn dozens of tried-and-true techniques, moving beyond guesswork to master the art of pleasuring a woman every time.
- Understanding Female Anatomy: An easy-to-read breakdown of the clitoris, the G-spot, and the keys to the female orgasm, written to make you an expert.
- Better Sex Life: Move past performance anxiety and "ill-cliteracy" with a fun, informative, and shame-free approach to ensuring she comes first.
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She Comes First by Ian Kerner is praised for being an insightful and humorous guide focused on female pleasure, encouraging men to approach the act with informed enthusiasm. It's lauded for its practical, detailed advice on oral sex, turning it into an art form while offering tips to overcome the mysteries of female sexuality. Reviewers highlight its revolutionary approach, some even suggesting it's a must-read for anyone looking to enhance their understanding of women's sexual satisfaction.
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ISBN: 9780060538262
Publisher: HarperCollins Publishers Inc
Format: Paperback / softback
Date Published: 01 January 2010
Country: United States
Imprint: HarperCollins
Illustration: Illustrations, black and white
Audience: General / adult
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Weight: 250g
Pages: 240
About the Author
Ian Kerner, Ph.D., is a sex therapist and New York Times bestselling author of numerous books, including She Comes First, which has been translated into more than a dozen languages. He contributes regularly to CNN on topics related to sex and relationships and is the co-founder of the Sex Therapy Program at the Institute for Contemporary Psychotherapy, one of the oldest and most respected not-for-profit mental health training and treatment facilities in New York City.
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