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Is It Ever Just Sex?
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A delightfully thought-provoking study of why we have sex, from award-winning psychoanalyst Darian Leader. It was just sex... It's a familiar claim. But it's also an impossibility, as Darian Leader shows in this delightfully thought-provoking study. Our bodies aren't just sticks that make fire when you...
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A delightfully thought-provoking study of why we have sex, from award-winning psychoanalyst Darian Leader.
It was just sex...
It's a familiar claim. But it's also an impossibility, as Darian Leader shows in this delightfully thought-provoking study.
Our bodies aren't just sticks that make fire when you rub them together, and our minds don't simply stand byβas we can see from the pain, heartache and regret that so often accompany the highs of sexual excitement.
As acclaimed psychoanalyst Darian Leader argues, with his trademark clarity, energy and wit, sex is always about so much more than itselfβit's about phantasy, anxiety, guilt, revenge, violence, love. Drawing on his long analytic experience, historical research and case studies to explore their importance to every aspect of our sexual lives, Leader brilliantly reveals what we are really thinking about when we think about sexβand what we are really doing when we do it.
Book Details
INFORMATION
ISBN: 9780241998168
Publisher: Penguin Books Ltd
Format: Paperback / softback
Date Published: 07 November 2024
Country: United Kingdom
Imprint: Penguin Books Ltd
Audience: General / adult, Tertiary education, Professional and scholarly
DIMENSIONS
Spine width: 17.0mm
Width: 128.0mm
Height: 197.0mm
Weight: 204g
Pages: 288
About the Author
Darian Leader is a psychoanalyst and the author of many books, including The New Black, What Is Madness? and Is It Ever Just Sex?. He practises psychoanalysis in London, and he is a founding member of the Centre for Freudian Analysis and Research and a member of the College of Psychoanalysts UK.
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