Is It Ever Just Sex?

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In Is It Ever Just Sex? by Darian Leader, the book delves into the complexities of human relationships, exploring the emotional and psychological dimensions of sexual encounters. Without giving away any spoilers, this engaging read questions whether sex can ever be a purely physical act or if it inherently involves deeper emotional and psychological connections. It challenges readers to consider the intricate interplay between desire, emotion, and cultural influences.
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This book may appeal to you if you're intrigued by the psychological and philosophical dimensions of human relationships and sexuality. It explores the complexities behind what might seem like straightforward questions about sex, diving deep into the motivations and emotions that underlie our intimate interactions. Whether you're interested in the intricacies of human behaviour or just curious about the topic, this engaging exploration offers insightful perspectives.

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Is It Ever Just Sex?

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A delightfully thought-provoking study of why we have sex, from award-winning psychoanalyst Darian Leader.

It was just sex.

It's a familiar claim. But is it really possible?

The old idea that sexuality is a smouldering, animalistic force within us, desperate for release yet restrained by social forces, has little to support it. Bodies aren't just sticks that make fire when you rub them together, and the pain, heartache, and regret that can accompany the highs of sexual excitement show us that much more is at stake.

So, what are we really thinking about when we think about sex? And what are we really doing when we do it?

As acclaimed psychoanalyst Darian Leader argues, with his trademark clarity, energy and wit, there is no such thing as just sex. It is always about so much more than that - about phantasy, anxiety, guilt, revenge, violence, love - and Leader draws on his analytic experience, historical research and case studies to explore their importance to every aspect of our sexual lives.

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Is It Ever Just Sex? by Darian Leader is praised for its sensitivity and insightful exploration of human sexuality, using accessible examples that make it compelling for readers. The book presents a thoughtful and engaging argument against the notion of β€œjust sex,” enlightening readers on the complexities of sexual relationships in our everyday lives.

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Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9780241624012

Publisher: Penguin Books Ltd

Format: Hardback

Date Published: 02 November 2023

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Hamish Hamilton Ltd

Audience: General / adult, Tertiary education, Professional and scholarly

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 28.0mm

Width: 144.0mm

Height: 222.0mm

Weight: 407g

Pages: 288

About the Author

Darian Leader is a psychoanalyst and the author of many books, including The New Black, What Is Madness? and Is It Ever Just Sex?. He practises psychoanalysis in London, and he is a founding member of the Centre for Freudian Analysis and Research and a member of the College of Psychoanalysts UK.

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