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How We Desire
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See moreA genre-busting, thoughtful and highly readable exploration of sexuality and identity by one of Germany's most admired writers.
A genre-busting, thoughtful exploration of sexuality and identity by one of Germany's most admired writers in the vein of Maggie Nelson, Eula Biss and Emily Witt.
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What if, instead of discovering our sexuality only once, during puberty, we discover it again later—and then again, after that? What if our sexuality reinvents itself every time our desire shifts, every time the object of our desire changes? What if the nature of our desire is constantly changing—growing deeper, lighter, wilder, more reckless, more tender, more selfish, more devoted, more radical?
How We Desire is an enthralling essay about gender, sexuality and love by one of Germany’s most admired writers. It’s about growing up, and discovering the contours of desire and difference, about understanding that we sometimes ‘slip into norms the way we slip into clothes, putting them on because they’re laid out ready for us’.
In telling her own story, Emcke draws back the veil on how we experience desire, no matter what our sexual orientation. And she examines how prejudice against homosexuality has survived its decriminalisation in the west.
This marvellous book pays homage to the radical magic and liberating tenderness of desire itself.
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How We Desire by Carolin Emcke is praised for its delicacy, vulnerability, and intellectual depth, presenting a passionate and enthralling narrative. Critics highlight its exploration of erotic boundaries, identity, and self-discovery through a thoughtful dialogue that resonates with personal and societal introspection. The work's emotional force and compelling intellectual exploration have been described as hypnotic and beautifully insightful.
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ISBN: 9781925603613
Publisher: Text Publishing
Format: Paperback / softback
Date Published: 28 May 2018
Country: Australia
Imprint: The Text Publishing Company
Audience: General / adult
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Width: 153.0mm
Height: 235.0mm
Weight: 250g
Pages: 256
About the Author
Carolin Emcke was born in 1967. She studied philosophy, politics and history in London, Frankfurt and at Harvard. From 1998 to 2013 she reported from war and crisis zones including Kosovo, Afghanistan, Pakistan, Iraq, Gaza and Haiti. She has written a number of books, and in 2016 she received the Peace Prize of the German Book Trade, which has also been won by Svetlana Alexievich, Orhan Pamuk and Susan Sontag. How We Desire is the first book by Carolin Emcke to be translated into English.
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