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But Are You Alive?

How to Design a Life Worth Living
By Eloise Skinner
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"A beautiful, sensitive book about the most important issues we face in life." -Emily Esfahani Smith, author of The Power of Meaning In But Are You Alive?, entrepreneur and teacher Eloise Skinner explores lessons learned from a decade spent pursuing depth, purpose and meaning, including from... Read More
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Discover your path to a varied and meaningful life, and feel truly alive.

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"A beautiful, sensitive book about the most important issues we face in life."

-Emily Esfahani Smith, author of The Power of Meaning

In But Are You Alive?, entrepreneur and teacher Eloise Skinner explores lessons learned from a decade spent pursuing depth, purpose and meaning, including from her training in a monastic community and in the field of existential therapy.

Working through practical exercises, principles and tools, Eloise shares wisdom and actionable advice from a variety of traditions and perspectives, all with the intention of helping the reader find a sense of deeper 'aliveness' in daily life.

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ISBN: 9781529398892

Publisher: John Murray Press

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 21 May 2026

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: John Murray One

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 24.0mm

Width: 128.0mm

Height: 196.0mm

Weight: 150g

Pages: 208

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About the Author

Eloise Skinner is a lawyer, author, therapist and dancer who devotes her life to helping people find meaning, purpose and direction.

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