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BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends)

A Girl's Guide to Happy Friendships
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BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends) by Jessica Speer is an interactive guidebook designed for preteen girls to understand and navigate the complexities of friendships. Filled with fun quizzes, colourful illustrations, and relatable stories, it covers important topics such as gossip, bullying, feeling left out, and ways to nurture meaningful friendships.
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Format: Paperback / softback
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Ideal for preteen and early teen girls who want to better understand friendship dynamics, as well as parents, teachers, and school counsellors supporting them through these formative years.

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Friendships can be tough. With clever, on-trend graphics and writing, BFF vs NRF (Not Really Friends) helps preteen girls learn to identify true friends, spot toxic friendship behaviour, and keep their friendship bonds strong! 

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Friendships are tough to navigate, even for adults. The preteen years can be particularly sticky, but we’ve got your back!

Packed with fun quizzes, colourful illustrations, and stories about girls just like you, BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends) is the ultimate interactive guidebook to help you learn the ins and outs of friendship.

Explore the topics of gossip, bullying, and feeling left out, along with ways to strengthen the friendships that mean the most to you.

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Praised by the School Library Journal for its accessible approach to social-emotional learning, this guide is recommended by psychologists and educators alike for helping girls develop social awareness, confidence, and positive friendship skills. Teachers and authors highlight its comprehensive coverage and empowering message for young girls.

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Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781641701952

Publisher: Familius LLC

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 03 August 2021

Country: United States

Imprint: Familius LLC

Illustration: full-color interior with spot illustrations

Contributors:

  • Illustrated by Elowyn Dickerson

Audience: Teenage

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 10.0mm

Width: 126.0mm

Height: 202.0mm

Weight: 160g

Pages: 128

About the Author

Jessica Speer is the award-winning author of BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends)? A Girls Guide to Happy Friendships and Middle School – Safety Goggles Advised. Her interactive books for preteens and teens entertain readers while exploring social-emotional topics. Blending humor, a dash of science, stories, and insights, her writing unpacks the social stuff that peaks during adolescence. She has a master’s degree in social sciences and explores topics in ways that connect with kids. Jessica is regularly featured in and contributes to media outlets on topics related to kids, teens parenting, and friendship. For more information, visit www.JessicaSpeer.com

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