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Beginning to Live

The Art of Existential Freedom
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A user's guide to the everyday challenges of living, which looks to philosophy to reframe the way we understand ourselves and our relationships. How can we find our own direction and purpose? When life feels too much, is it possible to free ourselves from the concerns... Read More
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A user's guide to the everyday challenges of living, which looks to philosophy to reframe the way we understand ourselves and our relationships.

How can we find our own direction and purpose? When life feels too much, is it possible to free ourselves from the concerns that weigh us down? Whether you're in therapy or prefer to find your own way through life's struggles, pioneering therapist Emmy van Deurzen offers a lifeline for rebuilding trust in the world.

Beginning to Live is a practical invitation to step back and discover what really matters by considering each of the four key aspects of our experience in turn: physical, social, personal, and spiritual.

Harnessing over fifty years' experience, this book is filled with wisdom and moving stories that show how to deal with dilemmas and difficulties of every kind, so that even when survival takes all you have, you can rekindle confidence in your own abilities and revitalise your capacity to relate to others. It is not about a quality of personality or character, which you either have or don't have, van Deurzen shows. It is about a way of being, which is available to each of us—enabling us all to find a more engaged way of living that is purposeful, deliberate, and buoyant.

Your future is a work of art in progress. And it starts here.

Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9780241526101

Publisher: Penguin Books Ltd

Format: Hardback

Date Published: 14 May 2026

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Allen Lane

Audience: General / adult, Tertiary education, Professional and scholarly

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 39.0mm

Width: 164.0mm

Height: 243.0mm

Weight: 658g

Pages: 432

About the Author

Emmy van Deurzen is a world-renowned existential psychotherapist and counselling psychologist who directs her private practice, Dilemma Consultancy, in London. She was the inaugural Chair of the United Kingdom Council for Psychotherapy and the founding director of the New School of Psychotherapy and Counselling, as well as the Existential Academy in London. She is a Visiting Professor with Middlesex University. She has published twenty books on existential therapy and the challenges of the human condition and she has lectured in more than thirty-five countries around the world.

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