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And When Did You Last See Your Father?

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And When Did You Last See Your Father? by Blake Morrison is a poignant exploration of the author's complex relationship with his father. As Morrison reflects on his father's life and death, he weaves together memories and insights, capturing both the love and tension between them. The memoir delves into themes of family, identity, and the enduring influence of parental relationships.
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You might enjoy this book if you're interested in intimate and poignant accounts of family relationships, particularly the complexities between fathers and sons. With raw emotion and vivid storytelling, it delves into themes of love, memory, and loss, offering a touching reflection on family dynamics that many readers may find relatable and thought-provoking.

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Blake Morrison's vibrant and deeply moving portrait of his father, and a raw, dazzling memoir of masculinity, family, and bereavement.

Blake Morrison's vibrant and deeply moving portrait of his father, and a raw, dazzling memoir of masculinity, family, and bereavement

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And when did you last see your father? Was it when they burnt the coffin? Put the lid on it? When he exhaled his last breath? When he last sat up and said something? When he last recognized me? When he last smiled?

Blake Morrison's memoir is a candid, profoundly moving reflection on his relationship with his father, Arthur.

Following Arthur's cancer diagnosis, Blake witnesses the slow erosion of the man he once knew. As his father's battle with the disease unfurls, Blake reflects on growing up with Arthur in Yorkshire and their relationship in the years since he left home. From Arthur's penchant for saving moneyβ€” and the lengths he'd go to do soβ€”to his wayward behaviour on family holidays, Blake's fearless account resists an unwavering celebration of his father, showing him to be outlandish and recalcitrant, as well as capturing his humorous and caring qualities. The result is a rich, nuanced portrait of their relationship, capturing the accommodations and resentments that lie cloistered within familial love.

And When Did You Last See Your Father? is a classic of the confessional memoir genre; a raw and shimmering interrogation of father-son relationships, masculinity, selfhood, and pride.

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And When Did You Last See Your Father? by Blake Morrison has been praised for its mixture of humour, tenderness, and poignancy. The book eloquently balances the complexities of life, illness, and familial relationships, particularly between fathers and sons. It has been described as both a touching homage and a powerful meditation on the inevitability of death and the joy of life. Reviewers commend its humaneness and its ability to evoke both tears and laughter, making it a cherished piece of literature.

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INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781783787654

Publisher: Granta Books

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 06 October 2022

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Granta Books

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 18.0mm

Width: 132.0mm

Height: 198.0mm

Weight: 250g

Pages: 240

About the Author

BLAKE MORRISON was born in Skipton, Yorkshire. He is the author of a novel - As If - two memoirs, two collections of poetry, critical studies, and a children's book. And When Did You Last See Your Father? won the Waterstones/Esquire/Volvo Awar for Non-Fiction and the J.R. Ackerley Prize for Autobiography. He is a fellow of the Royal Society of Literature, and is Professor of Creative and Life Writing at Goldsmiths College. He lives in London.

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